R3K
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[really complicated situation, plz help XD]
ok so I work at a restaurant with this girl who’s 11 years younger than me (she’s 23 and I’m 34)... and she's flirty and gets close to me physically at times, but I don't know if it's just playful meaninglessness, or if there's something there.
we were talking about coffee today and she said I could "get her phone number from somewhere and text her any time I want her to bring me coffee" (prior to this point neither of us had each others’ cell numbers.)... so me being the overassuming person that I am, I thought that meant she wanted me to have her ph#... anyway when she was off work and it was like 10pm and I was still at work, I thought just for lulz i'll get her ph# off the schedule (cause the mgr posts them on there in case employees need to switch shifts) and I sent her a text saying some BS like: i'll take a double shot of espresso with 2 sugar cubes" or something like that.
here's some of the back-and-forth from that point (keep in mind I was texting quickly cause I was on the clock and we’re not supposed to have our phones out)…
Her: Lol. Really, aww I just got home ): you’re kinda late. I’ll keep that in mind next time, when I know you’re coming into town.
Me: I’m j/k =P
Her: I know. So, am I lucky enough to have your second number?
Me: uh, wat do u mean my second #? I only have one phone
Her: liar, you have more than one. You looked so nice today. Just sayyen.
Me: are you insinuating that I have multiple cell phones like drug dealers do? Oh and I been wantin to tell you for a while you have a very beautiful smile
Her: no, I just remember when you and I were working at venice and you had two cell phones [I never worked with her anywhere else and have never had 2 cell phones]. Trust me, you’ll know when I insult you. I know I have a cute smile (;
Now this is when I realized I’d made a mistake… she totally thinks it’s someone else texting her, cause I never said who I was cause I was going on the assumption she’d figure out based on our conversations earlier that day.
I haven’t texted her or received any new texts from her since.. though I did appeal to her close friend who also works with us for help on what I should do next. Oh and… I have to work with her tomorrow, our schedules are going to overlap for about 2 hours. I feel super dumb and it’s going to be really embarrassing working with her now.
Thinking about it’s giving me major anxiety. I don’t know how to act from here on, because she thinks she was texting with someone else from another job, and she seems to like this guy and probably isn’t interestd in me at all. I thought about just pretending it never happened and hoping she’d never figure out it was me, but my #’s on the schedule right there… and other employees have my # already so it could possibly leak out from them too somehow.
I need advice and options, preferably from some of the girls on here, and hopefully before I go in to work in about 10 hours. Thanks in advance.
ok so I work at a restaurant with this girl who’s 11 years younger than me (she’s 23 and I’m 34)... and she's flirty and gets close to me physically at times, but I don't know if it's just playful meaninglessness, or if there's something there.
we were talking about coffee today and she said I could "get her phone number from somewhere and text her any time I want her to bring me coffee" (prior to this point neither of us had each others’ cell numbers.)... so me being the overassuming person that I am, I thought that meant she wanted me to have her ph#... anyway when she was off work and it was like 10pm and I was still at work, I thought just for lulz i'll get her ph# off the schedule (cause the mgr posts them on there in case employees need to switch shifts) and I sent her a text saying some BS like: i'll take a double shot of espresso with 2 sugar cubes" or something like that.
here's some of the back-and-forth from that point (keep in mind I was texting quickly cause I was on the clock and we’re not supposed to have our phones out)…
Her: Lol. Really, aww I just got home ): you’re kinda late. I’ll keep that in mind next time, when I know you’re coming into town.
Me: I’m j/k =P
Her: I know. So, am I lucky enough to have your second number?
Me: uh, wat do u mean my second #? I only have one phone
Her: liar, you have more than one. You looked so nice today. Just sayyen.
Me: are you insinuating that I have multiple cell phones like drug dealers do? Oh and I been wantin to tell you for a while you have a very beautiful smile
Her: no, I just remember when you and I were working at venice and you had two cell phones [I never worked with her anywhere else and have never had 2 cell phones]. Trust me, you’ll know when I insult you. I know I have a cute smile (;
Now this is when I realized I’d made a mistake… she totally thinks it’s someone else texting her, cause I never said who I was cause I was going on the assumption she’d figure out based on our conversations earlier that day.
I haven’t texted her or received any new texts from her since.. though I did appeal to her close friend who also works with us for help on what I should do next. Oh and… I have to work with her tomorrow, our schedules are going to overlap for about 2 hours. I feel super dumb and it’s going to be really embarrassing working with her now.
Thinking about it’s giving me major anxiety. I don’t know how to act from here on, because she thinks she was texting with someone else from another job, and she seems to like this guy and probably isn’t interestd in me at all. I thought about just pretending it never happened and hoping she’d never figure out it was me, but my #’s on the schedule right there… and other employees have my # already so it could possibly leak out from them too somehow.
I need advice and options, preferably from some of the girls on here, and hopefully before I go in to work in about 10 hours. Thanks in advance.