OceanMist
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I have even advised other people to be happy about being skinny but the last few weeks I'm starting to second guess how good being skinny really is.
I'm 5'11'', 155 lbs. I do have a little muscle tone but someone's first observation of my body size is that i'm skinny.
I guess this kinda started with the online dating thing. A lot of the girls I met were big, so I started to see a trend. I started to observe people's weight more when i would go places and the more I looked, the more I realized how much smaller I am than most people, especially guys.
Then I was in this pre-wedding ceremony for a little bit and was shocked at how practically every person there was thicker than me. I even heard some of the girls saying "he's too small" as I walked by (not the first time I've heard that). Most of the girls there were attractive too, so it was kind of like dang, is this the reason why I haven't been able to get cute girls?
I slept with like 10 girls, but they were they weren't really girls that I necessarily wanted to sleep with. Don't judge that, that's a different discussion i guess.
Yes, social anxiety has played a role in me not getting the cute girls, but I'm starting to think there is a biological factor of my size not being big and strong enough to attract enough women.
It's a known fact that women are biologically attracted to men who can protect them and their children. I don't fit that role as well as most men do, at least not from my appearance.
I may write more on this but my last story is where I approached this cute girl who was a little thick but not bad and she literally told me I'm too skinny for her and that my unit is probably small and that's why I'm approaching a girl I don't know. What the heck is that and how did she know about my small unit? That's not the first girl (or guy for that matter) who has said i probably have a small unit when they didn't even see my unit (as in I had jeans on).
I know you are probably laughing but I see more to what happened to me than comedy, I saw more of an observation that a lot of women may be making about me.
I'm 5'11'', 155 lbs. I do have a little muscle tone but someone's first observation of my body size is that i'm skinny.
I guess this kinda started with the online dating thing. A lot of the girls I met were big, so I started to see a trend. I started to observe people's weight more when i would go places and the more I looked, the more I realized how much smaller I am than most people, especially guys.
Then I was in this pre-wedding ceremony for a little bit and was shocked at how practically every person there was thicker than me. I even heard some of the girls saying "he's too small" as I walked by (not the first time I've heard that). Most of the girls there were attractive too, so it was kind of like dang, is this the reason why I haven't been able to get cute girls?
I slept with like 10 girls, but they were they weren't really girls that I necessarily wanted to sleep with. Don't judge that, that's a different discussion i guess.
Yes, social anxiety has played a role in me not getting the cute girls, but I'm starting to think there is a biological factor of my size not being big and strong enough to attract enough women.
It's a known fact that women are biologically attracted to men who can protect them and their children. I don't fit that role as well as most men do, at least not from my appearance.
I may write more on this but my last story is where I approached this cute girl who was a little thick but not bad and she literally told me I'm too skinny for her and that my unit is probably small and that's why I'm approaching a girl I don't know. What the heck is that and how did she know about my small unit? That's not the first girl (or guy for that matter) who has said i probably have a small unit when they didn't even see my unit (as in I had jeans on).
I know you are probably laughing but I see more to what happened to me than comedy, I saw more of an observation that a lot of women may be making about me.