Recent content by lonesomeboy

http://www.socialphobiaworld.com/modules.php?name=NukeC_Anuncis&op=ViewDetail&id_ads=111 admin, can you please remove my post? many thanks

please I need your help, your support, your advice and your inspiration. If I don't do it soon, I am gonna die. In 27 years I've never had the balls to randomly to talk to a female stranger to try to chat them up, because Iam a total loser with no self esteem or confidence. Tell me what to do...

god you won't believe what happened today. i went to lunch with this tall good looking work colleague of mine, so we bought something and sat down at this bench at a nearby park. we notice two girls on the other bench talking german to one another, and my colleague who speaks german just starts...

...and iam hiding in my room with the lights out. iam so ashamed that people outside will see that iam doing nothing for New Years. :(

at my new share house one my flatmates seem to be taken a liking to me. i helped her out with setting up her computer, and now shes always sms me everyday, offering me food, asking me to drive her around to buy stuff or run errands, etc... i dont mind helping her out and being a friend but she...

I got a whole list of people on my MSN from SA forums and other places, and I find even online my boring uncharismatic personality shines through. I get ppl adding me, we talk abit with small chit chat and after a while they stop messaging me. I say 'hello' and then the talk fizzes out, Iam...

I recently moved out of home, went interstate from Melbourne to Sydney and moved in into a big shared house with a bunch of people. Been here since Sunday, and well there has been some awkward SA situations. Like saying "hi" to someone and getting no reply. Stuff like that. A few housemates are...

well as red would know, i recently got a job up in Sydney and will be starting in Nov. I've never lived alone so iam pretty anxious about it. Biggest challenge is making the move up there. Still deciding wether to find shared accomodation or a house of my own. does any aussies live up there...

man it was hard. i called like 3 times and hanged up because i was so anxious. eventually thought, i spoke with a lady counsellor and set an appointment. i felt so embarrassed throughout the whole ordeal. i've never spoke about this with anyone in real life. only really online. anyways she...

i keep on thinking about SP and how it works. for me my main problem is that i feel so goddam embarassed about myself and my life, that it prevents me making friends and getting a life in the first place, which would cure my SP. if that makes any sense. its like a catch 22 of SA. i would be...

hi all, new user here. glad i have found this board. I suffer from very bad SP and shyness that has affected throughout my life. its made me very depressed. my problem is i have developed a really bad crush on a girl that i work with. shes funny, beautiful, outgoing and everything that iam not...