pop-princess

Yes, sounds romantic, doesn't it? I'll be waiting for you, my love. Once we meet, maybe you would like to go out into the town with me?

And I'll be the one on a horse. When we meet, the first thing I shall do is to place a kiss upon thy lips, more vigorous than any you've had before. If one of those two things doesn't happen, then that's not the real me.

But, how will I know it is you?

Under the Eiffel Tower, my love?

I'm stuck in the turbulent United States. Now, how cold is it? I need to know what size of jacket is required. Or we can just cuddle together and use each other for warmth.

Indeed it is. What is halfway for you?

Name the time and place, my princess.

Ok sent it. I used some photobucket links, I think it worked

No, not at all. I just need to know if I'm seeing my "defect" objectively or not. I'm pretty sure I am seeing it objectively... so if you confirm it, you'd actually be helping me because then I'd know I'm not crazy (hah!) Or if you say it's not as bad as I think it is, that might help me to feel differently about it.

I agree it's a tricky subject, and not an easy question to answer honestly. But seriously, you'd be helping me no matter what your opinion is. Also I don't want to put any pressure on you! There's no need to answer if you'd rather not. Either way, I appreciate you taking the time to look.

Now I just need to figure out how to send these things, lol.

No, it's more like... "is this something I should fix with surgery"... that type of thing. You know how some people with BDD spend their lives trying to fix their faces, and all they do is make it worse... well I often contemplate surgery, but I don't know if it's justified or not. And I don't trust anyone to give me an objective opinion.

Anyway I'll send you a couple of pictures, if you don't mind!

Hi Princess. Do you have BDD? I have a bad case of that... I would love to know what I really look like to other people, but I never meet anyone whose opinion I would trust. Would you be interested in exchanging photos? For some reason I think I would only trust another girl with BDD, to tell me the truth.

tack, Jag är en snabb elev

no i learned Swedish in 24 hours

Yeah, I certainly can't talk to my parents. There's a reason for that, but I won't get to that, it's too long of a story. I'll try to find a therapist. I've checked out that online therapy site, but I realized I couldn't afford it anyway. That's the problem. I'm under 18, I live with my mom, I have no income. And would my mom pay for it? Well... I don't know. I kind of would want to keep her out of the whole thing. It's kind of tricky. Though I could start by talking to the psychologist at our school. That would be free. Yet, I can't seem to make the iniative to do so.

Anyway, thanks so much for your advice and your support I hope we can find a way to support each other in the future as well.

Okay. But I'm glad to hear you got help.
I myself haven't been diagnosed with SA, but I know I have it. The only person I've kind of talked to about it is my mom. But she doesn't understand me. She really doesn't. I'd want to talk with a therapist, but I don't know how I could get to therapy. So I haven't had help yet, though I should. For I'm afraid it gets worse than this. I've had it my whole life though.

What is your SA like? Have you been diagnosed with it? Do you have other disorders related to SA?

haha at least you understood it i was not sure if it was correct

hoppas ni hade en trevlig dag

I feel almost ashamed of having never travelled to Sweden, even though I live in the country right next to it Just haven't got the chance to do so. Also, you're right, many are struggling with Swedish, at least at my school! People just don't seem to like the fact they _have_ to study it. I'm alright with it though ^^

hi pop princess nice to meet you