Smudgo
Member
Hi,
I really appreciate sites like this who are trying to help people ... I will try and explain my story as i am a caring person who wants to help.
I met a girl that i went out with about 5 months ago (she asked her friend to ask me out) and it was my first serious relationship (I am 16 she is 17). Erm to be fair we had a rocky start as i realised she was different from most girls in a good sense. She was sooo friendly and was never ever bad to me. I realised though that she had a problem with trust as she was in a bad relationship before...i understood that and moved on. She doesnt like meeting new people much and the symptoms of APD relate exactly to hers.
We have split up a few months ago mainly because she wasn't telling me how she felt ... I realised the mistake i made and i really want to get back together with her. She knows this and accoring to one of her friends she doesnt know what to feel about me...sometimes she avoids me now if i say somehting to her. I think she still likes me and im not sure if i should just give her time to think and let her get trust for me? Because she dont trust any guys I really want to help and i care for her so much that she dont know...but i know she finds it easier being alone. I dont think thats what she wants though.
Please some help on this matter would be a big help to me thanks!
I really appreciate sites like this who are trying to help people ... I will try and explain my story as i am a caring person who wants to help.
I met a girl that i went out with about 5 months ago (she asked her friend to ask me out) and it was my first serious relationship (I am 16 she is 17). Erm to be fair we had a rocky start as i realised she was different from most girls in a good sense. She was sooo friendly and was never ever bad to me. I realised though that she had a problem with trust as she was in a bad relationship before...i understood that and moved on. She doesnt like meeting new people much and the symptoms of APD relate exactly to hers.
We have split up a few months ago mainly because she wasn't telling me how she felt ... I realised the mistake i made and i really want to get back together with her. She knows this and accoring to one of her friends she doesnt know what to feel about me...sometimes she avoids me now if i say somehting to her. I think she still likes me and im not sure if i should just give her time to think and let her get trust for me? Because she dont trust any guys I really want to help and i care for her so much that she dont know...but i know she finds it easier being alone. I dont think thats what she wants though.
Please some help on this matter would be a big help to me thanks!