a loss for words....

[thatdude]

it seems like whenever i talk to people i cant think of what to say, its damn annoying and its like my mind just goes blank....

does anyone else have this problem?

 

[Remus]

Thats me on messenger at the moment, cant think of anything to say that wont sound boring so I just stare at it not having the courage to say hello to anyone

 

[FruitLooPs]

Thats me on messenger at the moment, cant think of anything to say that wont sound boring so I just stare at it not having the courage to say hello to anyone

Yeah its mood related for sure, some days I cant think of a thing to say or chat about. Other times I manage to talk on msn for hours about any old thing.

Just take advantage of the times when you have something to say or are in a mood where you can get into a conversation, I think when down i just dont feel like making the effort of conversing with anyone about trivial things. :?

 

[Horatio]

part of it for me is because my life is so boring... eg: I spend all weekend in bed... what the fuck am I supposed to talk about at work when everyone else is talking about where they went with their partner or the party they went to.
Am I supposed to patiently wait my turn in the coffee room and then announce to my colleauges that I spent my weekend in bed crying cause Im a loser?

 

[LilMissTragic]

I have the opposite problem, I talk way too much, i just go on and on about any old crap to the point where people look at me as though i'm the biggest weirdo going then they try to avoid me. I think I actually scare people. I go on about facts no one needs or wants to know. Then my mouth goes into hyper drive and I talk so fast no one can understand me anyways. Think I'll start carrying a ball gag round with me.

And Horatio, your not a loser, your socialphobic and thats nothing to be ashamed of.

 

[introvert]

The only time I go into hyper-drive is when I get up too fast in the morning.

 

[Travis88]

The begining of my conversation is Hi and the end is also Hi if i can even get to saying Hi. I go blank too . Hyper, hmm last time that happened was like 10 years ago(im 16).

 

[maggie]

happens to me all the time. Small talk is very hard for me. Sometimes I can't even answer simple question; It's like the words get choked up in my chest or something, I don't know. :x frustrates me on a daily basis.