I have the opposite problem, I talk way too much, i just go on and on about any old crap to the point where people look at me as though i'm the biggest weirdo going then they try to avoid me. I think I actually scare people. I go on about facts no one needs or wants to know. Then my mouth goes into hyper drive and I talk so fast no one can understand me anyways. Think I'll start carrying a ball gag round with me.
And Horatio, your not a loser, your socialphobic and thats nothing to be ashamed of.