elparanoic said:
I have been thinking that a possible solution would be make a radical change in our lives .The change would be going to an other city,make new friends,a new job and begin a new life.Do you thing that this change would the solution or always the illness follow with us?
I think you've made a good point. I think about that quite a bit.
I made a move to Arizona a few years ago and stayed for a few months, and for some reason I felt like a totally different person. I actually felt confident for once, and could talk to other people with no problem... There really is something about nobody knowing you and nobody knowing about your problems that really makes it easy to kinda reinvent yourself.
I actually got to choose who I wanted to be.
When I came back here to Tennessee, I honestly came back to the person I used to be here... Everyone knew how I was SP, so they treated me accordingly, and it is just so easy to fall back into the same trap of acting the same way...
So yes, I think it does help alot... I know it did help me for that short while. And if I could move and try it again, I would...