Rise Against
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Ive always been extremely self conscious and used to have social phobia. Something ive always had and valued was my empathy, my ability to recognize others feelings and try to help them... but lately my mindset has been changing and im honestly getting scared.
Well, here is a little hind site on my life... Honestly I am very good looking, very smart, very athletic, and others really like me... but for some reason i have yet to figure out, i hate myself. Its so frustrating, i mentally and physically abuse myself and feel like im inferior to everyone. I have severe ADD, and believe this to be the root of my self hatred and depression. In the past i have always disliked myself but loved others - even to the point where i would go out of my way to comfort people in need. I have always been a great friend, and valued my comforting nature.
About a year ago, i moved across the country my senior year of high school. I didnt fit in. I isolated myself and developed social phobia. My grades slipped from straight A's to C's and D's. This is when i developed a strong sense of self hatred. I began developing intense cravings to hurt myself. Like, i would brand myself on the stove... or shoot myself with a paintball gun... and cut myself. These cravings would come and go. These cravings scared me. I began abusing Adderall (amphetamine/speed) to combat these cravings and my depression/social phobia. Adderall soon became my only friend, it made me love myself and confident - feelings i have never felt before. Soon addiction took over and my life really went down hill.
I went off to college, only to flunk out. I was still addicted to amphetamine and extremely depressed, however i did manage to over come my social phobia. Around christmas time i moved back home. I was a mess and nobody knew about my addiction or any of my problems. I met this girl and she really helped me get my life back on track. I went to rehab and counseling for my addiction and depression. I got rid of the adderall and for the first time was content with myself and my life. We dated for about 5 months and then she broke up with me...
... i didnt handle this very well. I instantly went back to drugs and self medicated my depression. It got to the point where i tried to kill myself. I slit my wrists. I was pretty messed up in the mind at this point. I took pictures of my arms and sent them to my x-girlfriend. She called the police and i went to the hospital and then to a mental institution for a few days. They put me on anti depressants.
Its been about a month since i got out of the institution and i have developed lots of anger. It seems like i no longer have empathy or care. All i want to do is get back at my x-girlfriend so i can hurt her mentally. Ive said really really really mean things to her, things that would never had entered my mind a few months ago. It seems like my main focus is now revenge, which scares me. Like its to the point where i will cut myself not because i want to hurt myself, but because it hurts her. Yesterday i was planning on how i could get her to come back to me in the future, just so i can hurt her. These thoughts are over powering my mind.
I have moments where snap back to my old caring self and feel extremely guilty. To the point where i break down in tears and want to kill myself for all the things i have said to her. I dont know whats going on... its like im turning into a completly different person. I mean i still love this girl, but for some reason i am starting to turn all my hate from myself to other people. I dont know what to do... is it OCD or something or am i turning into a psychopath?
Well, here is a little hind site on my life... Honestly I am very good looking, very smart, very athletic, and others really like me... but for some reason i have yet to figure out, i hate myself. Its so frustrating, i mentally and physically abuse myself and feel like im inferior to everyone. I have severe ADD, and believe this to be the root of my self hatred and depression. In the past i have always disliked myself but loved others - even to the point where i would go out of my way to comfort people in need. I have always been a great friend, and valued my comforting nature.
About a year ago, i moved across the country my senior year of high school. I didnt fit in. I isolated myself and developed social phobia. My grades slipped from straight A's to C's and D's. This is when i developed a strong sense of self hatred. I began developing intense cravings to hurt myself. Like, i would brand myself on the stove... or shoot myself with a paintball gun... and cut myself. These cravings would come and go. These cravings scared me. I began abusing Adderall (amphetamine/speed) to combat these cravings and my depression/social phobia. Adderall soon became my only friend, it made me love myself and confident - feelings i have never felt before. Soon addiction took over and my life really went down hill.
I went off to college, only to flunk out. I was still addicted to amphetamine and extremely depressed, however i did manage to over come my social phobia. Around christmas time i moved back home. I was a mess and nobody knew about my addiction or any of my problems. I met this girl and she really helped me get my life back on track. I went to rehab and counseling for my addiction and depression. I got rid of the adderall and for the first time was content with myself and my life. We dated for about 5 months and then she broke up with me...
... i didnt handle this very well. I instantly went back to drugs and self medicated my depression. It got to the point where i tried to kill myself. I slit my wrists. I was pretty messed up in the mind at this point. I took pictures of my arms and sent them to my x-girlfriend. She called the police and i went to the hospital and then to a mental institution for a few days. They put me on anti depressants.
Its been about a month since i got out of the institution and i have developed lots of anger. It seems like i no longer have empathy or care. All i want to do is get back at my x-girlfriend so i can hurt her mentally. Ive said really really really mean things to her, things that would never had entered my mind a few months ago. It seems like my main focus is now revenge, which scares me. Like its to the point where i will cut myself not because i want to hurt myself, but because it hurts her. Yesterday i was planning on how i could get her to come back to me in the future, just so i can hurt her. These thoughts are over powering my mind.
I have moments where snap back to my old caring self and feel extremely guilty. To the point where i break down in tears and want to kill myself for all the things i have said to her. I dont know whats going on... its like im turning into a completly different person. I mean i still love this girl, but for some reason i am starting to turn all my hate from myself to other people. I dont know what to do... is it OCD or something or am i turning into a psychopath?