Toomuchfear
Well-known member
Is it just me or is everyone so rude?! I can think of countless examples, but here are some:
I ask a woman what she's studying. She says childcare. I'm not sure what to say, I know nothing about childcare, so I say she must be quite maternal then? She says yes and there's an awkward silence. I ask her ' to name one interesting thing about yourself?" she says "nothing really". I tell her what I do, she smiles, then she goes and talks to someone else.
I tell my 'friend' that I really like this club we were in at the time, that its so different than ones I've been to before. He nods his head and looks the other way. I have told other friends about things, but they act so indifferent, that conversations are a rarity.
Everytime I try and make conversation, no one really cares. I'm sick of 'oh right' 'that's nice' 'fair enough.' People are polite to notice me, they just don't want to invest their time with me . I feel so inferior compared to everyone else who are flirting, chatting and making conversations
I know you can't change people, you can only change yourself..I just wish I knew how to really engage people despite having SA
I ask a woman what she's studying. She says childcare. I'm not sure what to say, I know nothing about childcare, so I say she must be quite maternal then? She says yes and there's an awkward silence. I ask her ' to name one interesting thing about yourself?" she says "nothing really". I tell her what I do, she smiles, then she goes and talks to someone else.
I tell my 'friend' that I really like this club we were in at the time, that its so different than ones I've been to before. He nods his head and looks the other way. I have told other friends about things, but they act so indifferent, that conversations are a rarity.
Everytime I try and make conversation, no one really cares. I'm sick of 'oh right' 'that's nice' 'fair enough.' People are polite to notice me, they just don't want to invest their time with me . I feel so inferior compared to everyone else who are flirting, chatting and making conversations
I know you can't change people, you can only change yourself..I just wish I knew how to really engage people despite having SA