coyote
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that doesn't seem improbable at all
remember, not everyone here is in high school
I'm 47, and i've had sex approximately 3,876 times
(that only averages out to a little more than twice a week for the last 30 years)
Are you a virgin?
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that doesn't seem improbable at all
remember, not everyone here is in high school
I'm 47, and i've had sex approximately 3,876 times
(that only averages out to a little more than twice a week for the last 30 years)
nafadda
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Invisableman....improbable you say??? heheheh Not sure what you mean by that,you may explain it though,,well actually it was long before I became a recluse,You must understand also sometimes a person may act one way while 'masking' another way..and only they know why they are doing what they are doing.
you see,it's like this,some may drink( i never was into that all that much),some make take drugs,(not my thing),and some may use other things for self validation,,why?? because they can...no different then drugs or drinking really..not sure if that explains it,but I tried...plus you also need to understand not all generations were the same..that says a lot
you see,it's like this,some may drink( i never was into that all that much),some make take drugs,(not my thing),and some may use other things for self validation,,why?? because they can...no different then drugs or drinking really..not sure if that explains it,but I tried...plus you also need to understand not all generations were the same..that says a lot
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coyote
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oh well, that number is considerably lower than 3,876 for me - only 30 something
but 50-100 doesn't sound like that many considering our age
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Invisibleman
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Im aware of that john terry, if you had stated your age I wouldnt have said anything at all and I would be on my merry way by now. Most people on here seem to be early to mid 20s so thats how I imagine most people on here.
nafadda
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I am not sure who John Terry is ?? but I will 'google' him"..FYI,I am 100% female last time I checked..hold on,let me check again..YEP..still a female heheheh
ohh no..def NOT in my 20's thankfully..I lived through them.wasn't my best of times .It(life) got much better with age,like a fine wine I like to say...but that explains a lot by telling me about the age thing.With age comes wisdom so the clique' goes..I like to think it true.
ohh no..def NOT in my 20's thankfully..I lived through them.wasn't my best of times .It(life) got much better with age,like a fine wine I like to say...but that explains a lot by telling me about the age thing.With age comes wisdom so the clique' goes..I like to think it true.
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Invisibleman
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I am not sure who John Terry is ?? but I will 'google' him"..FYI,I am 100% female last time I checked..hold on,let me check again..YEP..still a female heheheh
ohh no..def NOT in my 20's thankfully..I lived through them.wasn't my best of times .It(life) got much better with age,like a fine wine I like to say...but that explains a lot by telling me about the age thing.With age comes wisdom so the clique' goes..I like to think it true.
Lol yeah I completely understand now. I imagined you like 20 so when you said 50 I was like what!?:
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OceanMist
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I just saw this study that claims the average number of women a man has slept with is 7? I was shocked when I read that and expected the number to be much higher.
I don't see how that's possible when people on here are claiming they've slept with 50 different people.
My friends would talk about sex a lot. Maybe they were just glorifying about the same partners or something.
I don't see how that's possible when people on here are claiming they've slept with 50 different people.
My friends would talk about sex a lot. Maybe they were just glorifying about the same partners or something.
nafadda
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ok first off RE: ANY polls or 'studies" you may see on the internet or whatever media outlet you see or hear them on..DON'T believe everything you read...for instance with a study,some place is given a grant or just do it at random,they ask,lets say 500 people from an area//ok??? well if 300 say one thing (and who's to say they are even being honest) and 299 say something else and one person is undecided ,,well they can say the majority..and if you go by the entire poulation of the world ,it is a VERY VERY tiny group of people they actually asked.
next..from people I have actually known,,men seem to over exagerate #'s because for men it seems cool..and women will under play #'s so to seem more "pure' and innocent..ummm ok..well there may even once in a great while a person that makes NO excuses and may not be sure ,so since "she" has no reason to try and lie or be what she isn't ,she will just take a guess.
see,i am aware when a woman answers the way I did it could cause a person to think ,that is "bad"..when actually if that was one small part of my life that made me the person who is happy as I am today..and I learn from my mistakes,and am perfectly fine without wanting it now,it ok with me,,so I guess I am not for the faint of heart because I actually will say what I want to and have no problem now doing just that.After all,why would i..it was my life,no one elses and my choices,be they bad or good..and who I became is what is important to me.it took many years to get to this stage,many mistakes along the way..but the fact that i got here is what is important to me now.
and BTW..bluedays..yes I think you do,,it's called a "born again" virgin LOL
next..from people I have actually known,,men seem to over exagerate #'s because for men it seems cool..and women will under play #'s so to seem more "pure' and innocent..ummm ok..well there may even once in a great while a person that makes NO excuses and may not be sure ,so since "she" has no reason to try and lie or be what she isn't ,she will just take a guess.
see,i am aware when a woman answers the way I did it could cause a person to think ,that is "bad"..when actually if that was one small part of my life that made me the person who is happy as I am today..and I learn from my mistakes,and am perfectly fine without wanting it now,it ok with me,,so I guess I am not for the faint of heart because I actually will say what I want to and have no problem now doing just that.After all,why would i..it was my life,no one elses and my choices,be they bad or good
..and who I became is what is important to me.it took many years to get to this stage,many mistakes along the way..but the fact that i got here is what is important to me now.and BTW..bluedays..yes I think you do,,it's called a "born again" virgin LOL
peanutsmum
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I've been married 3 times. I had several one night stands during my first two marriages and several boyfriends I slept with between marriages...
If I could take it all back and start over, I would stay a virgin until I met my current husband.
Or.. If I had my life to live over and if I never met the man of my dreams, I would rather go out a virgin.
So hang onto it those of you that still have it ..it's precious and when people say losing their virginity.. that's exactly what it is..a loss..if it's not with the right person at the right time.
If I could take it all back and start over, I would stay a virgin until I met my current husband.
Or.. If I had my life to live over and if I never met the man of my dreams, I would rather go out a virgin.
So hang onto it those of you that still have it ..it's precious and when people say losing their virginity.. that's exactly what it is..a loss..if it's not with the right person at the right time.
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Seven?
I dont think that is acurate,I had more chances than that without even trying,it was practically handed to me,I can only imagine guys that go persuing have many more,I have seen some guys get that number in like 3 or 4 months.
MikeyC
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That is one hell of a dry spell. Unfortunately, no, you can't turn back into one, haha. I assume you're not worried about never having sex again?So after a long "dry spell" do you turn back into a virgin?
I've only had one partner in my life, and it's been 8 and 1/2 years since then.
Can't see it ever happening again, I am still amazed it happened in the first place.lol
Eh, that's just an average, and how many men were in the study? I don't know how accurate that is.
Hindsight sucks, doesn't it? There's many things we wish we could do over.
vj288
not actually Fiona Apple
It sounds accurate to me. I would guess there are more people towards the edges than the middle though. I think there's a lot of people with more conservative views out there who had much fewer partners than 7. I'd think the number of people with less than 7 is far greater than the number with more, but the people with more than 7 includes people who have had far more than 7.
And that 7 is the GLOBAL average, in specific cultures it'll be very different, like NZ for example, as seen here http://www.socialphobiaworld.com/cant-get-laid-come-to-new-zealand-26030/
No dating, thanks, just sex - national | Stuff.co.nz
OceanMist
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I think that study is accurate because they were asking men. If anything, a man has a better chance of lying and says he's slept with more women than he really has compared to odds that a guy that would say he's slept with less than women than he has.
Even if it is somehow greater than 7, with averages like that it couldn't be more than 9, which still is lower than what I expected.
VJ has a good point about many people having conservative views. I've talked to some guys that didn't believe in having sex until marriage.
Even if it is somehow greater than 7, with averages like that it couldn't be more than 9, which still is lower than what I expected.
VJ has a good point about many people having conservative views. I've talked to some guys that didn't believe in having sex until marriage.
Yes I am at 21, but who cares, its privacy if somebody ask you can just lie
if I get 26 I gonna start worry my self a little bit
Luckily I have a good imagination its almost real...
but you can get an escort, I don't want be anxious the first time at 25 lol what must my future girlfriend think if act like its my first time at that age
if I get 26 I gonna start worry my self a little bit
Luckily I have a good imagination its almost real...
but you can get an escort, I don't want be anxious the first time at 25 lol what must my future girlfriend think if act like its my first time at that age
lilmutegirl
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Okay.... I have heard this many times from others who HAVE SA and can still have sex...??? If you can't have a gf/bf then how can you get past the SA to have sex? Just very curious??? Because I also have a very HIGH sex drive, but there is NO WAY I can get past the SA to ever engage in a sexual act, approach a stranger or friend, or ask a girl out on a date... You must not have acute SA?
Maybe it's different for guys, since they are traditionally expected to do the approaching/asking out. If it were entirely up to me, I'd still be a virgin, I can guarantee that. In fact, I think that my SA made me more susceptible to being taken advantage of. If I had more self-confidence and was able to stand up for myself, I could've said no and convinced them to leave me alone.
Fortunately, I have a wonderful boyfriend now, but I would not have been able to start the relationship, so therefore, would not have had sex with him if I were the one who had to initiate anything.
MikeyC
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I'm 26 in a matter of days and I'm less worried than you think.