Orion's Hound
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For the sake of abiding by forum rules, I will avoid going into details but suffice to say it includes but is not limited to kissing, cuddling, sexuality, and the like (need not include sexuality, though). Mind you I am referring to purely in these terms of with a mate and not referring to everyday life - I know some tend to be quite dominant and in control in the work place but prefer the opposite with a mate. For those who have never experienced it, feel free to cast based on how your fantasies play out concerning it.
I ask because I am fascinated by how this might be affected by SA. On the one hand I would suspect more submissiveness but, on the other hand, some SA types maybe terrified of being out of control. Feel free to share why and explain yourself (within reason).
In love and affection, do you prefer to be in control and acting (ie classically Dominant) or do you prefer to be out of control and reactive (ie classically Submissive)?
Edit: I would like to keep it civil and judgement free as well as within the confines of forum rules, if you could. Even if you believe women or men should be one or the other, I would appreciate your respecting disagreement on this front, gracefully. My intention isn't to hurt feelings, just sate curiosity. Thank you for your cooperation on this matter.
I ask because I am fascinated by how this might be affected by SA. On the one hand I would suspect more submissiveness but, on the other hand, some SA types maybe terrified of being out of control. Feel free to share why and explain yourself (within reason).
In love and affection, do you prefer to be in control and acting (ie classically Dominant) or do you prefer to be out of control and reactive (ie classically Submissive)?
Edit: I would like to keep it civil and judgement free as well as within the confines of forum rules, if you could. Even if you believe women or men should be one or the other, I would appreciate your respecting disagreement on this front, gracefully. My intention isn't to hurt feelings, just sate curiosity. Thank you for your cooperation on this matter.
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