nightcrawler
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I haven't dated for many, many years. In fact I was a teenager the last time I dated someone...I'm now in my mid 40's!!! I've come close a few times, but for one reason or another it just hasn't happened. Tbh I've got used to being alone, though hoped that one day I might meet that special person. Being socially anxious has obviously played a HUGE part in me being single, though for the last 3 years I've been on an anti-depressant (Citalopram) which has slowly but surely helped. I've actually gone to several family gatherings, which I would used to always shun (though I'm still not 100% comfortable).
Anyway, back to my thread topic. A few months ago a woman came into my life. I thought she was very attractive, though well out of my league if I'm to be honest. I always get butterflies when I see her, and she often comes to talk to me. I'm 99% sure she fancies me, not just cos she comes to talk to me but also because the way she looks at me too. I'm always thinking about her now. Even when I'm at home I'm wishing I could be doing something with her, rather than playing videogames or watching tv on my own. It's now got to the point where I really want to ask her out, before she slips through my fingers. I may not get another chance like this again! I'm very anxious about dating again for the first time in ages, but am excited too about getting to know this woman. Anyway, I'm planning/hoping to ask her next week, so please wish me luck
Anyway, back to my thread topic. A few months ago a woman came into my life. I thought she was very attractive, though well out of my league if I'm to be honest. I always get butterflies when I see her, and she often comes to talk to me. I'm 99% sure she fancies me, not just cos she comes to talk to me but also because the way she looks at me too. I'm always thinking about her now. Even when I'm at home I'm wishing I could be doing something with her, rather than playing videogames or watching tv on my own. It's now got to the point where I really want to ask her out, before she slips through my fingers. I may not get another chance like this again! I'm very anxious about dating again for the first time in ages, but am excited too about getting to know this woman. Anyway, I'm planning/hoping to ask her next week, so please wish me luck
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