Argamemnon
Well-known member
Would you agree with the following statements;
I think being nice, but lacking confidence, is much worse (i.e far less attractive) than being a confident abusive asshole. The majority of woman would choose the latter.
As long as you're confident and aren't butt ugly, you should not have a problem attracting females. You can be an asshole; that's not a problem or disadvantage at all (perhaps only at a later stage in the relationship).
Lacking confidence or being shy is perceived as being worse than cancer in society. Being a genuinely nice and decent person has no benefits at all, if you're shy and lack confidence.
I think being nice, but lacking confidence, is much worse (i.e far less attractive) than being a confident abusive asshole. The majority of woman would choose the latter.
As long as you're confident and aren't butt ugly, you should not have a problem attracting females. You can be an asshole; that's not a problem or disadvantage at all (perhaps only at a later stage in the relationship).
Lacking confidence or being shy is perceived as being worse than cancer in society. Being a genuinely nice and decent person has no benefits at all, if you're shy and lack confidence.