Alicat
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When I was a little girl I was not only shy, but I used to get upset really easy over anything. I really regret looking back on my elementary school years, and wondering what it would've been like if I didn't cry as much as I did in school.
I remember no one really wanted to be my friend, because I guess I was just different. It was just every little thing would make make me burst out into tears. It was mostly over school grades, because even at that age I put a lot of pressure on myself. Or if I did something wrong, I'd feel ashamed.
Nobody really understood why I couldn't just control my emotions, like I was doing it on purpose or something, but it really hurt that I had to be that way. The teachers would be concerned at the beginning of the year, but then just ignore it after a while, because there was nothing they could do. My mom was frustrated why I just couldn't stop behaving that way, but like everyone else she didn't understand that I just couldn't turn my emotions off like a light-switch.
Even when I got into middle school, it didn't happen everyday. I just remember one day I got a C on a report, and I was overtaken with grief, I had to go home. And every now and then when something would happen I'd go into the bathroom and cry and then come out and try to hide my face so no one would know, but everyone was already used to it. I was at the same private school for 8 years [1st - 8th].
Now that I'm a Sophomore in HS, it still happens to me today. Not as often, of course. It doesn't happen to enough to where everyone has a knowledge that I do it. Even some of my closest friends don't know. But a couple of weeks ago the conselor saw me crying in a bathroom stall over my D average in Chemistry, and took me to the nurse. I completely skipped my lunch and hid in the bathroom, because I didn't want anyone to see that I had been crying. When I saw that D, an emotion came over me and all these thoughts of failure just came into my mind.
I never really thought about why I have a tendency to get so upset, but I've always considered myself a "perfectionist" or just "overly-sensitive". Could it be something else?
I know this is a SAD forum, but maybe this is a symptom of SAD..?
Help me out,
thnx
Ali
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I remember no one really wanted to be my friend, because I guess I was just different. It was just every little thing would make make me burst out into tears. It was mostly over school grades, because even at that age I put a lot of pressure on myself. Or if I did something wrong, I'd feel ashamed.
Nobody really understood why I couldn't just control my emotions, like I was doing it on purpose or something, but it really hurt that I had to be that way. The teachers would be concerned at the beginning of the year, but then just ignore it after a while, because there was nothing they could do. My mom was frustrated why I just couldn't stop behaving that way, but like everyone else she didn't understand that I just couldn't turn my emotions off like a light-switch.
Even when I got into middle school, it didn't happen everyday. I just remember one day I got a C on a report, and I was overtaken with grief, I had to go home. And every now and then when something would happen I'd go into the bathroom and cry and then come out and try to hide my face so no one would know, but everyone was already used to it. I was at the same private school for 8 years [1st - 8th].
Now that I'm a Sophomore in HS, it still happens to me today. Not as often, of course. It doesn't happen to enough to where everyone has a knowledge that I do it. Even some of my closest friends don't know. But a couple of weeks ago the conselor saw me crying in a bathroom stall over my D average in Chemistry, and took me to the nurse. I completely skipped my lunch and hid in the bathroom, because I didn't want anyone to see that I had been crying. When I saw that D, an emotion came over me and all these thoughts of failure just came into my mind.
I never really thought about why I have a tendency to get so upset, but I've always considered myself a "perfectionist" or just "overly-sensitive". Could it be something else?
I know this is a SAD forum, but maybe this is a symptom of SAD..?
Help me out,
thnx
Ali
<3