shyflower
Well-known member
About a week ago I met this guy through a friend. He seemed nice and everything he complimented me and said he was attracted to me and he did treat me nice at first.. but then he changed. We hung out as friends and I had been upfront that is all I wanted. Then by Sunday he was making dinner plans for us to go out Thursday. Then things got bad,, he asked me Sunday to come over to his place.. he texted all day.. he asked Sunday night to meet him for breakfast Monday morning,, then Tuesday he was trying to get me to meet him at Red Lobster.. then he was asking this evening if I was at another restaurant. He knows my situation.. I have no car of my own.. I work a job now with hours I set.. etc. I told him that I cannot just quit work and come out and meet him..I have to borrow a vehicle.. he already knew all of this from the start. He was already making plans to go out of town with me.. he became pushy, clingy, controlling, and mean to me all in 2 days time. I finally had to tell him I was not interested and he text me earlier and asked what I was doing even after I cussed him out.. He said to me " now now I have been nothing but nice to you for you to be like that towards me." He has become a leech and is now alternating his personality.. nice to me one minute and a butt the next. He blames me for everything.. I am the one with the problem.. I am the one with all the issues..Just because I am not bowing over and kissing his feet everytime he summons me. Now he says.. he will see me soon. I don't want to see him I am very afraid of him and he is acting crazy towards me.. How to get rid of him.. no is not the answer I already tried? I shake just thinking of what he could try..it really bothers me.