Tripolar
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Other people gobbled it up through mocking.
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Other people gobbled it up through mocking.
I'm just answering to the question,"Yes,I feel COMPLETELY inferior.".
I'm only saying that is because I have ZERO ability/skills in anything....even the "losers / douche bags" out there are better than me 'cause they've AT LEAST have a friend where else i've got NONE(i mean a PERSONAL friend,not an acquaintaince)..So no matter what,if i see someone else with their friend,I'll instantly feel inferior already...*shrugs*i hate that feeling of "inferiority" although poeple constantly tell me NOT to...it's a pain in the 'S' really.....=..=
for me, it seems to work the other way around
in situations where i do not feel inferior, i have more confidence
or
i tend to lose my confidence in situations where i feel inferior
the feeling of inferiority is not necessarily rational - it comes from some deep emotional place and is often triggered by things that I am not aware of
the trick is to recognize it when it happens and try to replace the irrational thoughts and feelings with something more realistic and constructive
for me, it seems to work the other way around
in situations where i do not feel inferior, i have more confidence
or
i tend to lose my confidence in situations where i feel inferior
the feeling of inferiority is not necessarily rational - it comes from some deep emotional place and is often triggered by things that I am not aware of
the trick is to recognize it when it happens and try to replace the irrational thoughts and feelings with something more realistic and constructive
I don not "feel" inferior. I am inferior. Reasons being:-
1) I am ugly
2) I am not smart
3) I do not have any confidence
4) I am underweight
5) Whenever I have been to (school, college and work), I am the most ugliest and the most pathetic guy around
6) Despite me being good at studies/exams no body even considered me as a human being; I was always like something which doesn't deserve respect/due consideration/kindness as a human being
7) I was/am constantly reminded of my abnormality.
8) I do not have any qualities what so ever which would make anyone take even the most remotest interest in me
9) About girls, I have never even spoken to one
10) It would be an understatement if I mentioned that I hate myself.
The above are facts, I accept those and I have been molded as such and it cant be changed.
I have a hard time believing most of these things.
No one is ugly. Thoughts can be ugly, features can be ugly, but no person is ugly. What decides whether or not you (or any person) is ugly is your personality. Though I don't know you, I don't feel like you'd have an ugly personality at all.
Confidence is something that a lot of people have trouble with, whether they show it or not. Whenever I feel myself looking down at the ground to avoid eye contact with people, I catch myself and look up. Keeping your head up will make you feel better about yourself.
Being underweight doesn't make you inferior. I am underweight and I don't consider it to be a flaw of mine. I wouldn't consider an overweight person to be inferior because of their weight either.
I just looked at your bio and I noticed you are into the science fiction. That is interesting! Don't say it isn't. There are other people with the same interests as you! And I noticed you also have dA in your interests. Do you like art? I love art, myself. I'm not any good, yet, but I enjoy it greatly.
I just wanted you to know that what you consider to be flaws AREN'T flaws, but they make you who you are <3
I definitely feel inferior most of the time. I'm constantly comparing myself to other people, and I really shouldn't. It's a horrible habit that one should never get into.
This might be related to your thyroid, I'd strongly suggest that you visit a doctor and ask him to give you a thyroid test...sometimes thyroid hormones can show normal on a test while the antibody TPO levels might be high(this indicates an autoimmune thyroid).Many doctors don't measure antibody TPO levels(it's a ratherly new concept) be sure to ask your doctor to measure your antibody TPO levels as well.I don not "feel" inferior. I am inferior. Reasons being:-
4) I am underweight
The above are facts, I accept those and I have been molded as such and it cant be changed.