This is for the both of you.
I have felt that way before. I have had OCD for about 5 years and I can say things get better. If you want it gone bad enough you will find ways to fix it. Family, friends, counselors, psychiatrists (if necessary), hobbies, and anything else you can do to either get your life going again or get a better understanding of what it is can help tremendously. I have fought it mostly on my own and with help from friends and family, but with NO medication and no therapy. I am not saying therapy is bad, because it could be the cure-all for some. DON"T GIVE UP!! It's not worth giving into. There are things that can be done to fix it. After 5 years I am 100's of times better and the problems I have today are minimal. I am thankful everyday that I didn't give in, and I kept fighting.
I wish you the best of luck!
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