Section_31
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My wife and I had this problem. Our wedding day in sept was pure hell for her. The whole week she was a trembling bundle of nerves on the couch, she couldnt keep anything down. We had to cancel alot of dinners with relatives we hadnt seen in yrs because she was in no shape to go.
We ended up going to the doctor, who gave her what we both refer to as her "nuclear calmdown pill". I dont remember what it was called, but as soon as our doc saw her he knew what to give her. It didnt cure her anxiety, but calmed her down enough that she was able to proceed and even enjoy things, though she was still a little bit nervous.
All i can say, is if you do meet that someone and things go this way, dont let SA/SP stop you. There ARE things to help you get through it. See your doc, he or she can help.
We ended up going to the doctor, who gave her what we both refer to as her "nuclear calmdown pill". I dont remember what it was called, but as soon as our doc saw her he knew what to give her. It didnt cure her anxiety, but calmed her down enough that she was able to proceed and even enjoy things, though she was still a little bit nervous.
All i can say, is if you do meet that someone and things go this way, dont let SA/SP stop you. There ARE things to help you get through it. See your doc, he or she can help.