Moonie
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I have been with my BF for 9 months. We met online and talked 3 months before actually meeting last summer. I was a bit tipsy and had invited him out to a club. We had fun, I was drunk, and we didn't really hang out again because I was too shy. A month later, we met again at a bar, and THEN finally went on some sober dates. He's quite the opposite of me- outgoing, confident, sociable, quick-witted. Online, we talked for hours and it was great. I mean, I am beocming comfortable with him, but not completely my true self. I just feel as though that he would find me perfect if I were more like my online-self/ more sociable/ more spotaneous. He says to me that I am "eye candy" rather jokingly, but still it feels that it might just be the case at times... Can a relationship like this work? I don't just want to be eye candy..