zerohour
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I know there's probably been a thousand posts like this, but I guess I just need to get it off my chest. I've never been a "ladies man", but I remember when I was in school I at least had friends who were girls, even though I rarely had a girlfriend. I was the one guy that they could confide in when they had problems, and I could usually make these girls laugh and feel good about themselves again. Now, I think i'm a decent guy and all, i'm not chauvinistic, i'm kind, all that, but because of Social Anxiety I can't have a relationship. And what really frustrates me is that there are a whole lot of people out there in relationships that just don't appreciate what they have - they whine about their significant other, and would rather be at the pub than with their girlfriend. And I have a feeling that I couldn't make a relationship work even if I managed to get into one in the first place - especially with a girl that doesn't have SA. It seems to me that any of my good qualities would be irrelevant, because I don't have a "normal" social life. I couldn't be the guy that takes her out on the weekend, or spends time with her and all of her many friends, or whatever it is that "normal" people do , even though I would probably appreciate a girl more than most people without SA would. Anyway, now i've probably made myself look like a bit of a @%@#, so i'll stop typing.