OceanMist
Well-known member
I see a lot of people saying one needs to work on themselves before they are ready for a relationship. I'm not disagreeing with that, but I do see something interesting with that statement.
If we need to work on ourselves first, and be happy by ourselves first, then why even pursue love? If you are telling me I can be happy alone, then why should I even try to get a g/f....ever?
I am currently seeing the searching for a mate thing as something that is insecure according to the "be happy by yourself" theory.
I want you to just think about something.....if you are really happy by yourself, then why are you wanting to be in a relationship, much less talk to anyone outside of work?
It seems like a faulty theory.
If we need to work on ourselves first, and be happy by ourselves first, then why even pursue love? If you are telling me I can be happy alone, then why should I even try to get a g/f....ever?
I am currently seeing the searching for a mate thing as something that is insecure according to the "be happy by yourself" theory.
I want you to just think about something.....if you are really happy by yourself, then why are you wanting to be in a relationship, much less talk to anyone outside of work?
It seems like a faulty theory.