chibiXphantom
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im not sure where to post this, but i really need advice (might be pretty long)
ok, so a guy started going to my high school for a short amount of time. while he was there, he was picked on and he sat alone all the time. i felt bad for him, so i invited him to sit with my friends in lunch. we became friends, but then he moved away to another state.
i got a friend request from him a while back. we exchanged phone numbers.
all seemed like a normal friendship. then he texted me he that liked me. i told him i was intrested in someone else. he kept going on and on about how he really like me and gave me tons of compliments. i tried to tell him nicely that i wasnt really interested in dating him, but he couldnt take it.
i kept getting tons of messages from him and he was facebook stalking me so i deleted him. i blocked him on other websites too.
he asked me why i blocked him and i said that his messages were getting overbearing and a bit weird. he stopped texting me for a while.
but.. its stated again. he texted me after a few months. just normal stuff: hows life?, hows college? etc... then he says he misses me and how much he likes me... i tell him i have a boyfriend now (which i do). from there he goes into a suicidal rant. i tried to be nice and tell him he's a great guy and that there are plenty of better girls out there than me. in his mind i guess that means i like him.
ive tried to tell him im not interested. every time im very blunt about it, he goes suicidal.
things are getting bad now. ive been getting about 10-20 texts a day that ive been trying to ignore. sometimes i respond but he gets really creepy, saying he cant live without me, how he doesnt want to be with anyone but me, and trying to convince me to be with him. when i respond, he ignores what i say and says some pretty innapropriate things... idk what to do. ive been getting tons of emails too. its freaking me out >_< what do i do??
ok, so a guy started going to my high school for a short amount of time. while he was there, he was picked on and he sat alone all the time. i felt bad for him, so i invited him to sit with my friends in lunch. we became friends, but then he moved away to another state.
i got a friend request from him a while back. we exchanged phone numbers.
all seemed like a normal friendship. then he texted me he that liked me. i told him i was intrested in someone else. he kept going on and on about how he really like me and gave me tons of compliments. i tried to tell him nicely that i wasnt really interested in dating him, but he couldnt take it.
i kept getting tons of messages from him and he was facebook stalking me so i deleted him. i blocked him on other websites too.
he asked me why i blocked him and i said that his messages were getting overbearing and a bit weird. he stopped texting me for a while.
but.. its stated again. he texted me after a few months. just normal stuff: hows life?, hows college? etc... then he says he misses me and how much he likes me... i tell him i have a boyfriend now (which i do). from there he goes into a suicidal rant. i tried to be nice and tell him he's a great guy and that there are plenty of better girls out there than me. in his mind i guess that means i like him.
ive tried to tell him im not interested. every time im very blunt about it, he goes suicidal.
things are getting bad now. ive been getting about 10-20 texts a day that ive been trying to ignore. sometimes i respond but he gets really creepy, saying he cant live without me, how he doesnt want to be with anyone but me, and trying to convince me to be with him. when i respond, he ignores what i say and says some pretty innapropriate things... idk what to do. ive been getting tons of emails too. its freaking me out >_< what do i do??