philly2bits
Well-known member
Get out. Don't be a hypocrite.
He's free to give his opinion. If you disagree then feel free to give a counter point. But keep it civil and respectful.
Get out. Don't be a hypocrite.
As far as I'm concerned, you're born gay or a lesbian. From a young age you're confused and attracted to members of the opposite sex. When your girl friends are thinking about little boys, a lesbian would be thinking about little girls and would be confused as to why she's doing so.
The fact that up until you learned about homosexuality you liked guys leads me to believe you're straight and you're only scared of being a lesbian.
I wouldn't say you're bi either.
Seems like hocd to me.
My dear girl, there is nothing to worry about. If you were a lesbian, you would know it, and you would accept it. Since you worry so much over it, that would mean you are not. Your mind will guide you through your decisions. You do not need to force yourself to try and be straight or whatnot. Simply do what makes you feel comfortable and remain calm about the issue.
if she doesn't read it anymore it is because people here are not helpful. She needs help with HOCD not sexual advice.
I had HOCD for several years until it finally went away.