believesomething
Active member
I've wondered, ever since starting to read (and post) on this site (and others like it), how many people worry about the consequences of posting replies, especially when people are seriously down / considering unhealthy options? This is more than just the classic SA fear of speaking up, more a challenge between the concern over the potentional consequences versus the guilt associated with not trying in some way to help....
I'm not a qualified psychologist / psychiatrist, and I know most here aren't, and that most people (incl. myself) are dealing with their own challenges. Equally I know that the point of these sites is not for medical professionals to help people - it's more to create a community, and to support and share within that community (imho). Personally I enjoy that comfort and support that comes from the feeling of community, knowing that others share similar thoughts and feelings and challenges.
But the challenge comes when someone posts and is really reaching out for help, but is considering options that are serious, or seems very very low at the time. Part of me wants to post, but not just something token, something that might help in some little way. The other part of me is scared that by offering my opinion, or even just by offering my positive support, well that this could be the thing that pushes the person away further, perhaps leaving them feeling even less understood, more isolated, or worse.
Does anyone else know where I'm coming from? Has anyone had any good or bad experiences along these lines?
I'm not a qualified psychologist / psychiatrist, and I know most here aren't, and that most people (incl. myself) are dealing with their own challenges. Equally I know that the point of these sites is not for medical professionals to help people - it's more to create a community, and to support and share within that community (imho). Personally I enjoy that comfort and support that comes from the feeling of community, knowing that others share similar thoughts and feelings and challenges.
But the challenge comes when someone posts and is really reaching out for help, but is considering options that are serious, or seems very very low at the time. Part of me wants to post, but not just something token, something that might help in some little way. The other part of me is scared that by offering my opinion, or even just by offering my positive support, well that this could be the thing that pushes the person away further, perhaps leaving them feeling even less understood, more isolated, or worse.
Does anyone else know where I'm coming from? Has anyone had any good or bad experiences along these lines?