man on the hill
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how long does it take to forget, or in other words "lose feelings for", someone you once loved and cared about?
I had my first real girlfriend earlier this year, started texting and talking after christmas. Spent new years eve with her which was was one of the best nights of my life I think. Also it was the first time for me ever kissing a girl on the lips and making out. And a week or two later I spent the night with her and lost my virginity with her, which was another awesome night. Although I was kinda nervous cause I was worried that I wasnt gonna be very good for her. Honestly I loved this girl so much, I loved everything about her and the just the couple of times I got to spend with her I enjoyed every second being with her. and she told me she felt the same way about me and I was the best guy she had ever been with. But after only talking and seeing each other for like 3 weeks, just out of the blue she stopped talking to me and said she just didnt want to date anybody at the time and that she just wanted to be friends. for a little while I was so confused I didnt know what to do. Here I really thought I was in love when the whole time I was just being toyed with.
Ive texted her a few times since then, just sayin "hey" or "whatsup". a few times she replies back but doesnt really say much. ive told myself over and over to just forget her and stop trying to talk to her but I cant get myself to do it. and almost every day I still get to thinking about her when I see stuff that reminds me of her. Then the more I think about her the more lonely and down an out I feel.
I had my first real girlfriend earlier this year, started texting and talking after christmas. Spent new years eve with her which was was one of the best nights of my life I think. Also it was the first time for me ever kissing a girl on the lips and making out. And a week or two later I spent the night with her and lost my virginity with her, which was another awesome night. Although I was kinda nervous cause I was worried that I wasnt gonna be very good for her. Honestly I loved this girl so much, I loved everything about her and the just the couple of times I got to spend with her I enjoyed every second being with her. and she told me she felt the same way about me and I was the best guy she had ever been with. But after only talking and seeing each other for like 3 weeks, just out of the blue she stopped talking to me and said she just didnt want to date anybody at the time and that she just wanted to be friends. for a little while I was so confused I didnt know what to do. Here I really thought I was in love when the whole time I was just being toyed with.
Ive texted her a few times since then, just sayin "hey" or "whatsup". a few times she replies back but doesnt really say much. ive told myself over and over to just forget her and stop trying to talk to her but I cant get myself to do it. and almost every day I still get to thinking about her when I see stuff that reminds me of her. Then the more I think about her the more lonely and down an out I feel.