silentbutdeadly
Well-known member
Come on, you know what I'm talking about, guys. There are fewer things in the world more awkward than not knowing how the other person wants to do a handshake. And I'm not talking about the regular handshake (the one that also signifies agreement).
I feel so out of place when I see friends and relatives do random handshakes with each other so comfortably like it's nothing. I always end up either doing the handshake wrong or just doing the regular handshake...so humiliating. Sometimes people don't even bother doing any kind of handshake with me because they want to avoid the awkwardness. They'll just wave (even though I'm standing like 3 feet away) and say bye.
So anyways, my question: Is there a most common "male handshake" that I could just stick with? BTW, I live in Southern California, if that helps at all.
And don't tell me to just do the "regular handshake" because even though that would remove some of the awkwardness, I'll still feel like a total square. The main reason I'm asking is because I have a couple of family gatherings to go to for the holidays, and I think improving my handshake will help my self-confidence a little.
P.S. I found this youtube video, but it was more confusing and funny than helpful. :wink:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=T2r3iv0maM0
I feel so out of place when I see friends and relatives do random handshakes with each other so comfortably like it's nothing. I always end up either doing the handshake wrong or just doing the regular handshake...so humiliating. Sometimes people don't even bother doing any kind of handshake with me because they want to avoid the awkwardness. They'll just wave (even though I'm standing like 3 feet away) and say bye.
So anyways, my question: Is there a most common "male handshake" that I could just stick with? BTW, I live in Southern California, if that helps at all.
And don't tell me to just do the "regular handshake" because even though that would remove some of the awkwardness, I'll still feel like a total square. The main reason I'm asking is because I have a couple of family gatherings to go to for the holidays, and I think improving my handshake will help my self-confidence a little.
P.S. I found this youtube video, but it was more confusing and funny than helpful. :wink:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=T2r3iv0maM0