Littlewilly
Well-known member
Hi I just want some advice about how to approach a lady of whom I
have become fond of at work from sort of afar.
She is Russian but does speak english but not very well but the problem is
I don't come into contact with her very much apart from in passing & don't
always say hello because I am not always very good at initiating it like I want to say hi but if she might look away I start to feel embarrased because she didn't speak to me, I don't know anyway if you see what I mean. I don't really know how old she is I think about 40ish but has a fantastic body & dresses youngish I think I've developed a crush on her, Its impossible to tell if she is or was married because there doesn't seem to be any wedding or engagement rings on apart from a chain she usually wears around her neck with a heart on the end. I know this sounds silly at my age but I've always had this problem when it comes to the opposite sex as I suffer from Anxiety or mainly love shyness but I see her more or less every day at work I would just like to get to know her a bit better even if just that would it be a good Idea to ask her to go for a drink or coffee sometime or would that be pushing the boat out too far.
What do you think.
Regards
John Mc (Littlewilly)
P.S- Sensible answers only please.
have become fond of at work from sort of afar.
She is Russian but does speak english but not very well but the problem is
I don't come into contact with her very much apart from in passing & don't
always say hello because I am not always very good at initiating it like I want to say hi but if she might look away I start to feel embarrased because she didn't speak to me, I don't know anyway if you see what I mean. I don't really know how old she is I think about 40ish but has a fantastic body & dresses youngish I think I've developed a crush on her, Its impossible to tell if she is or was married because there doesn't seem to be any wedding or engagement rings on apart from a chain she usually wears around her neck with a heart on the end. I know this sounds silly at my age but I've always had this problem when it comes to the opposite sex as I suffer from Anxiety or mainly love shyness but I see her more or less every day at work I would just like to get to know her a bit better even if just that would it be a good Idea to ask her to go for a drink or coffee sometime or would that be pushing the boat out too far.
What do you think.
Regards
John Mc (Littlewilly)
P.S- Sensible answers only please.