There is a girl in my class that I will love to get a chance to know. The other day, we were in a group evaluating papers. I noticed she smiled when we made eye contact. She also asked me where I'm from because I made a reference to NYC in the paper. I answered her and, I asked her the same question. How can I get the chance to know her. We don't sit near each other in class. Did she send a cue to to let me know that she was open for conversation?
You dont need a que to start a conversation with someone, you dont need anything for that matter.
Just walk over and say "hey, Im *whoever*" "hows it going?"
& ask her what her name is at some point in the conversation.
You'll kick yourself if you ever understand the simplicity of talking to people.
I've been on both social ends, trust me.
You just do it, dont think about it, just do it.
Thinking will make you nervous. This isnt a big deal, you dont need to be nervous. You talk to people all the time... this is no different in any way.
Check out Sickjokes "girlfriend" thread if you feel like it.
He's a good guy for this kind of self-improvement.