You might want to consider shaving. o,0
Seriously though, when people have SA they very often concentrate on their own appearance which they see as hideous and how other people [people, that is, not some online point-mapping system] see them rarely has anything to do with how they see themselves.
I do shave... I didn't mean I was a male. I know a lot of people assume I am because of the logo I used for my profile, but it's only because I actually like Radiohead a lot. On a side note, I understand a lot of people with SA (like myself) unfortunately have this habit of picking out flaws/traits of ourselves that we tend to dislike. I must say that half of the time though, most people I've been around with, will usually find the smallest details to criticize me over (whether if it's my hair, even if I have it curled and done, they'll either say "Oh I don't like your hair because it looks so much like your dad's" "Your hair is so poofy." If I am supposed to clean something and I think I did my job well, "No, you didn't do this right!" "You don't listen!" and the most infamous "I should take you to a doctor to see what's wrong with you." Ouch! Now that I still remember those words, they still have left quite a mark on me. Even from my parents, they will shout at me if I tend to make the tiniest mistake, anything they know that will set them off. And while I can't control what these people say, it often makes me feel more self concious and it becomes easier to doubt myself)
I guess if a lot of people I've been around with who are able to constantly point out over everything wrong that I do or every flaw that I have, I'm not so sure if I can make myself believe that I'd be good enough in anyone else's eyes. All my life I dealt with listening to people who have used harsh criticism against anything I do or say. Even my own opinions.
I always thought that I did deserve to be treated like this, so that whenever someone is actually nice and trying to be supportive, I'm usually taken aback. I guess because I would've expected them to treat the same way as I've been treated by others. Problem is, is that I haven't been around a lot of supporting people in my life. I just had to force myself to deal these things alone without anyone's help. But, what does it matter? I really didn't have much to live for, like I said, I'm just an ordinary, plain human being. I'm no different than anyone else, I can understand that now. As for my looks, I think you are right in saying to accept myself, but it's quite hard. And I understand using online mapping points such as Heritage.com, pictriev, and other various sites aren't the most important things you can judge your looks by. I've probably used those sites since I was 15 or 16 years old, and I guess I was very surprised to see that I had a lot of male celebrity comparisons rather than female celebrities Oh well, maybe I can learn to get over that at some point.