Da Kid
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Not trying to go on a crazy rant to a bunch of people I don't know, but I feel kinda bad and would appreciate whatever advice I can get from people. Anyway:
I'm 18 years old, finishing up High School at a school of about 700 total people. I was made fun of all throughout elementary school because of my buck teeth and the fact that I always smelled bad (parents wouldn't let me use deodorant). Most people didn't like me, including the teacher, but I had some decent friends (though I admit I didn't hang out with them outside of school because my parents kept me around the house a lot). My parents are Russian, so they prioritize my learning above everything else. I know they care about me, but I can tell I frustrated them a lot because I didn't like to learn. Plus, I broke a lot of things when I was younger, which pissed my dad off a lot because he had to fix it all. Anyway, I move onto a new school for 6th grade through 8th, and much of the same happens. My confidence is beat down because of years of being made fun of, and my teeth and smell are still pretty bad. So, though people are at least friendly (mostly), I have few friends, and still don't hang out with a lotta people. In 8th grade I get braces, the bad smell begins to reside (slightly), but people still have bad opinions of me because me feeling that I get no attention, blurt out random things and try to entertain at my own expense. So, I am annoying, smell bad and not attractive. Anyway, I met the nicest kid around.
This kid, in short, genuinely seemed to care, even though I kinda appeared outta nowhere. He told me to believe in myself, and that with some work I'll be able to get girls and be normal. This helped me get my first shread of self confidence. Things moved along, my braces got taken off and my teeth are decent now (though they are a bit yellow, but I am working on that) and Around sophomore year my smell started to reside and now I smell normal (though I don't use and kidna colone or smell) and I found football, the thing I enoy most in my life. However, I only started one game throughout HS in football, and am basically known as a bench guy to the people on the team (and some in school). The nice kid who helped me left for college, and I am going to a different one next year. But, I still feel kinda empty.
I have only 2 friends who I hang out with a on a regular basis, I dress decently (but not up to my standards, and I am trying to eliminate all the HS football stuff before I go to college), I think I look decently, but I am shy, and am scared of talking to girls, I am a virgin and have never kissed a girl, I don't party (am not allowed out at night), I know I can be social (when on vacation only 1-2 weeks ago, had a great time while drunk/high. Didn't get any girls, but I at least asked on to dance (got rejected ) in the right situations, it's just most of the people in the school think I am w/e. I am also trying to play college football at a D-I school, though I am not that good, and am only 6'2, 180 lbs. (going to play in 3 years, cause I am gonig to college for 7 for my physical therapy doctorate). And I wear glasses to see from far away (thought I don't wear them in public, and can't read or see clearly from far away, which bothers me a bit). I also have a really weird personality where I am either a complete pacifist or an ******* whose intentions are misread, or a mellow bitch who doesn't really care anymore.
Anyway, thats all that comes to my head atm. Any and all advice is appreciated, though I am not expecting on magic answer that will help everything.
I'm 18 years old, finishing up High School at a school of about 700 total people. I was made fun of all throughout elementary school because of my buck teeth and the fact that I always smelled bad (parents wouldn't let me use deodorant). Most people didn't like me, including the teacher, but I had some decent friends (though I admit I didn't hang out with them outside of school because my parents kept me around the house a lot). My parents are Russian, so they prioritize my learning above everything else. I know they care about me, but I can tell I frustrated them a lot because I didn't like to learn. Plus, I broke a lot of things when I was younger, which pissed my dad off a lot because he had to fix it all. Anyway, I move onto a new school for 6th grade through 8th, and much of the same happens. My confidence is beat down because of years of being made fun of, and my teeth and smell are still pretty bad. So, though people are at least friendly (mostly), I have few friends, and still don't hang out with a lotta people. In 8th grade I get braces, the bad smell begins to reside (slightly), but people still have bad opinions of me because me feeling that I get no attention, blurt out random things and try to entertain at my own expense. So, I am annoying, smell bad and not attractive. Anyway, I met the nicest kid around.
This kid, in short, genuinely seemed to care, even though I kinda appeared outta nowhere. He told me to believe in myself, and that with some work I'll be able to get girls and be normal. This helped me get my first shread of self confidence. Things moved along, my braces got taken off and my teeth are decent now (though they are a bit yellow, but I am working on that) and Around sophomore year my smell started to reside and now I smell normal (though I don't use and kidna colone or smell) and I found football, the thing I enoy most in my life. However, I only started one game throughout HS in football, and am basically known as a bench guy to the people on the team (and some in school). The nice kid who helped me left for college, and I am going to a different one next year. But, I still feel kinda empty.
I have only 2 friends who I hang out with a on a regular basis, I dress decently (but not up to my standards, and I am trying to eliminate all the HS football stuff before I go to college), I think I look decently, but I am shy, and am scared of talking to girls, I am a virgin and have never kissed a girl, I don't party (am not allowed out at night), I know I can be social (when on vacation only 1-2 weeks ago, had a great time while drunk/high. Didn't get any girls, but I at least asked on to dance (got rejected ) in the right situations, it's just most of the people in the school think I am w/e. I am also trying to play college football at a D-I school, though I am not that good, and am only 6'2, 180 lbs. (going to play in 3 years, cause I am gonig to college for 7 for my physical therapy doctorate). And I wear glasses to see from far away (thought I don't wear them in public, and can't read or see clearly from far away, which bothers me a bit). I also have a really weird personality where I am either a complete pacifist or an ******* whose intentions are misread, or a mellow bitch who doesn't really care anymore.
Anyway, thats all that comes to my head atm. Any and all advice is appreciated, though I am not expecting on magic answer that will help everything.