Ventrilotwo
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Hi, I'm a guy and I really want to know if girls think it is. Personally I think confidence is just behind arrogance and I think that's the most unattractive thing. I'm a math major and I get some of the top marks in my university class, this is no easy feat. But when I talk to people I always say "I'm in math" and if they say something along the lines of, "oh you must be so smart," I say "not really." Or if they say "what kinda marks do you get?" I say, "fine." I think it would be boastful to say "I get all A+s" But is that what girls want? It's just so disgusting to me. I'm not a practicing christian but there is some good lessons in the bible, suchas humility is a virtue and pride is the most deadly sin. The only time I might bring up my grades or awards is when someone is talking about theirs and I find it insufferable.
I really don't think I'm better than anyone else but at the same time i don't think most people are better than me so i choose to try to be humble... God... Maybe i just don't know what confidence is.
I really don't think I'm better than anyone else but at the same time i don't think most people are better than me so i choose to try to be humble... God... Maybe i just don't know what confidence is.