Confuseddd
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I have been thinking about something, and well I may be on to something.. Not quite sure but I thought it might be worth sharing
I think everything is my fault
So, I will start by giving you an example of a situation that effect me and my anxiety negatively, so you can get a better idea of what im talking about.
Today for instance I was at the gym, and me and my friend had a disagreement, well we ended up just letting it go on mutual terms but never the less I felt like that entire scenario was MY fault. I felt like the entire tension that was created was because of me, and it could have all been avoided. I start thinking I may have been wrong and it is a spiral downwards from there. That is just one situation out of the many I have had that eventually builds up after a time to something so much bigger!
What I mean is that, after a while I am too afraid to even speak my mind because im afraid of the tension, because I feel like its all my fault! Everything is always my fault in my head, mostly sub-conciously.
This is big for me because I now understand myself just that much more. I figure if I can progressively teach myself that tension and disagreement is going to happen and also come hand in hand, and ALSO, that it is not my fault I may become slightly better!
Maybe someone relates in a way? Hopefully! Hope it helped someone!
Maybe someone will know a technique that might help me teach myself this ?
I think everything is my fault
So, I will start by giving you an example of a situation that effect me and my anxiety negatively, so you can get a better idea of what im talking about.
Today for instance I was at the gym, and me and my friend had a disagreement, well we ended up just letting it go on mutual terms but never the less I felt like that entire scenario was MY fault. I felt like the entire tension that was created was because of me, and it could have all been avoided. I start thinking I may have been wrong and it is a spiral downwards from there. That is just one situation out of the many I have had that eventually builds up after a time to something so much bigger!
What I mean is that, after a while I am too afraid to even speak my mind because im afraid of the tension, because I feel like its all my fault! Everything is always my fault in my head, mostly sub-conciously.
This is big for me because I now understand myself just that much more. I figure if I can progressively teach myself that tension and disagreement is going to happen and also come hand in hand, and ALSO, that it is not my fault I may become slightly better!
Maybe someone relates in a way? Hopefully! Hope it helped someone!
Maybe someone will know a technique that might help me teach myself this ?