Ayla
Well-known member
you know, I was thinking after I read silverwolf's post on jerks getting girls....
I think complaints about how jerks seem to have what we want come up fairly frequently with people with SA...I mean, I know I've felt that way. How come I can't make friends, when that jacka$$ has all those people around them?
But the truth is, often, jerks get what they do because they are such big jerks that they don't even know that they are jerks, and so they aren't ashamed of it. they are often loud and obnoxious - and as a result people notice them.
See, but if even these big jerks are likeable to someone, then that means that practically anyone who puts themself out there is likeable to someone. It can be depressing, or inspiring, however you choose to look at it.
I think complaints about how jerks seem to have what we want come up fairly frequently with people with SA...I mean, I know I've felt that way. How come I can't make friends, when that jacka$$ has all those people around them?
But the truth is, often, jerks get what they do because they are such big jerks that they don't even know that they are jerks, and so they aren't ashamed of it. they are often loud and obnoxious - and as a result people notice them.
See, but if even these big jerks are likeable to someone, then that means that practically anyone who puts themself out there is likeable to someone. It can be depressing, or inspiring, however you choose to look at it.