Anonymous
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I've had pretty severe SP for about 4 years now. I go to UNI, but aside from that i never venture outside the house. I haven't had a job, a social outing or even one single, solitary phone call from a friend for all this time (not surprising since i don't have any).
But there are days when i feel some confidence, and i might strike up a conversation with somebody. In the 'getting to know you' chitchat, like what do u do for work etc. i find myself making up litte white lies, in order to cover up my total lack of social and working life. Then afterward i'm feeling, why do i give a crap what this person thinks of me, why do i have to impress them? Nevertheless, i still do it. Obviously, to say "I have SP with agrophobia and don't have much of a life" won't exactly endear you to the other person, and doesn't fit into a conversation all that well.
Does anyone else find themselves forced to do this? Probably everybody does it, particularly when meeting the opposite sex, but i find myself doing regardless of who it is. And no, i'm not a pathological liar. :?
But there are days when i feel some confidence, and i might strike up a conversation with somebody. In the 'getting to know you' chitchat, like what do u do for work etc. i find myself making up litte white lies, in order to cover up my total lack of social and working life. Then afterward i'm feeling, why do i give a crap what this person thinks of me, why do i have to impress them? Nevertheless, i still do it. Obviously, to say "I have SP with agrophobia and don't have much of a life" won't exactly endear you to the other person, and doesn't fit into a conversation all that well.
Does anyone else find themselves forced to do this? Probably everybody does it, particularly when meeting the opposite sex, but i find myself doing regardless of who it is. And no, i'm not a pathological liar. :?