T T T
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I am currently 16 years of age.
I live with my cousin and my parents.
I have a girlfriend that i've been with for almost 8 months now.
I am too young to be diagnosed with anything but I have been to see my doctor with complaints of OCD before, they said they would book me in for counciling; this was about 4 months ago, still no counciling.
My social anxiety is ruining everything, and from here I can see no way out.
My cousin knows I have some bad social problems, but she has no idea as to what extent and, to be honest, she dosen't care or understand. My girlfriend tries to support me, but she dosen't understand either so I never talk about it or ask for advice because it just gets awkward.
I don't think my parents actually realise i'm even shy. When i'm not meeting my girlfriend I spend all my time in my room because I find it really difficult and unenjoyable to go outside without my girlfriend; God i'm sad.. My parents give me £50 a month, but they're threatening to stop giving me it because i'm "too lazy to bother getting off my chair" and get a job; not a full job, just before I start collage. As annoying if it would be if I lost that money, that's not what scares me, it's that I am completley unable to walk into a shop or whatever, and ask for a job. I just can't do it, and I don't know how to make them understand that.
Whenever I say for example "Why would they want to hire me?" they just say "Stop being so negative and defeatist and get off your arse!" I just don't know what to do, I mean I haven't tried getting a job yet, and I will, but I just want them to understand.
I'm sure there are many people in the same position as me and I would just really sppreciate some advice.
Thank you
I live with my cousin and my parents.
I have a girlfriend that i've been with for almost 8 months now.
I am too young to be diagnosed with anything but I have been to see my doctor with complaints of OCD before, they said they would book me in for counciling; this was about 4 months ago, still no counciling.
My social anxiety is ruining everything, and from here I can see no way out.
My cousin knows I have some bad social problems, but she has no idea as to what extent and, to be honest, she dosen't care or understand. My girlfriend tries to support me, but she dosen't understand either so I never talk about it or ask for advice because it just gets awkward.
I don't think my parents actually realise i'm even shy. When i'm not meeting my girlfriend I spend all my time in my room because I find it really difficult and unenjoyable to go outside without my girlfriend; God i'm sad.. My parents give me £50 a month, but they're threatening to stop giving me it because i'm "too lazy to bother getting off my chair" and get a job; not a full job, just before I start collage. As annoying if it would be if I lost that money, that's not what scares me, it's that I am completley unable to walk into a shop or whatever, and ask for a job. I just can't do it, and I don't know how to make them understand that.
Whenever I say for example "Why would they want to hire me?" they just say "Stop being so negative and defeatist and get off your arse!" I just don't know what to do, I mean I haven't tried getting a job yet, and I will, but I just want them to understand.
I'm sure there are many people in the same position as me and I would just really sppreciate some advice.
Thank you