Horatio
Well-known member
Why is it that Im always being pushed to the outer of social groups then finally uncerimonously dumped out of them alltogether? Ever since I was at school and being bullied like anything its always been the bloody same.
People I thought were my friends start making fun of me, then stop including me, then start avoiding me and without telling me they dont want my friendship anymore I find myself not in the group at all.
For the last 4 years or so Ive only had a few friends but now Im finding they are spending more time with each other and I get invited out basically never, in order for me to do something with them I have to organise it and even then it feels like Im asking them to do a chore by going out with me somewhere and more often than not they are "busy" with other social engagments and cant see me anyways. I feel like Im once again turning into the unwanted baggage going round and round the airport luggage conveyerbelt by itself, noone wanting to pick it up, noone wanting to be associated with it, going round and round and round all day long watching all the other bags getting taken home until eventually Im there by myself and a security gaurd comes to destroy me in case Im a bomb.
You know what, I think socialphobia is a joke, yeah sure its a condition and yeah sure its something in our heads that needs fixing, but I reckon Im using it for too many excuses, trying to sheild the truth from myself.
The truth is that Im a fucking loser that people dont wanna hang out with and would be better off dead. Maybe I have socialphobia, or maybe thats just a nice label to give myself instead of loser. Probably both.
People I thought were my friends start making fun of me, then stop including me, then start avoiding me and without telling me they dont want my friendship anymore I find myself not in the group at all.
For the last 4 years or so Ive only had a few friends but now Im finding they are spending more time with each other and I get invited out basically never, in order for me to do something with them I have to organise it and even then it feels like Im asking them to do a chore by going out with me somewhere and more often than not they are "busy" with other social engagments and cant see me anyways. I feel like Im once again turning into the unwanted baggage going round and round the airport luggage conveyerbelt by itself, noone wanting to pick it up, noone wanting to be associated with it, going round and round and round all day long watching all the other bags getting taken home until eventually Im there by myself and a security gaurd comes to destroy me in case Im a bomb.
You know what, I think socialphobia is a joke, yeah sure its a condition and yeah sure its something in our heads that needs fixing, but I reckon Im using it for too many excuses, trying to sheild the truth from myself.
The truth is that Im a fucking loser that people dont wanna hang out with and would be better off dead. Maybe I have socialphobia, or maybe thats just a nice label to give myself instead of loser. Probably both.