dontbeshy
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Whenever i have to attend tutorials i feel this dread in my stomach and sometimes i dont end up going at all, ive missed a whole load of classes already. Im always sitting there unable to concentrate, just on alert for when the teacher is picking students to give answers and its like waiting for the apocalypse or something. I've had times where i just go completely blank, i cannot even say "i dont know" or anything and being in that situation terrifies me. ive read some posts where people say they leave the classroom but ive never even considered that an option - i feel that it would draw too much attention to me! i usually just endure it. i went to see one of my tutors the other day to request that i not have to speak in class (as suggested by a counselor) and when the words came out of my mouth i just burst into tears. he was nice about it though, but it was still awful and im really hav to force myself to see other teachers as well.
The worst part is that I have to give an oral presentation in every subject that i have, and frankly i would rather be hit by a truck. now i can never really relax because its like i have a sword hanging over my head.
I dont think my new uni friends even want me around now. for some reason i just cant talk to people, i feel i can never be myself. i cant think of anything to say or feel that it will come out wrong. Today when i was with them, i think i said about 10 words. I really did try to meet some new people at the beginning when uni started cos i tried to tell myself maybe i just havent met people i have things in common with, but this keeps happening - i close up inside myself and its really frustrating. Sometimes i'd feel some anxiety around them but other times, its just this perpetual blank nothingness, numb. i kind of want to explain to them about SA but im not sure how to start.
i think i should take a break from uni. but i dunno wat to do if i quit, im really scared. i have until march 31st to decide.
anyway this seems really long, sorry for rambling.
The worst part is that I have to give an oral presentation in every subject that i have, and frankly i would rather be hit by a truck. now i can never really relax because its like i have a sword hanging over my head.
I dont think my new uni friends even want me around now. for some reason i just cant talk to people, i feel i can never be myself. i cant think of anything to say or feel that it will come out wrong. Today when i was with them, i think i said about 10 words. I really did try to meet some new people at the beginning when uni started cos i tried to tell myself maybe i just havent met people i have things in common with, but this keeps happening - i close up inside myself and its really frustrating. Sometimes i'd feel some anxiety around them but other times, its just this perpetual blank nothingness, numb. i kind of want to explain to them about SA but im not sure how to start.
i think i should take a break from uni. but i dunno wat to do if i quit, im really scared. i have until march 31st to decide.
anyway this seems really long, sorry for rambling.