recluse
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Here are reasons i avoid making friends/avoid socializing -
1) I am embarassed of people getting to know i have no job, no friends, never had a girlfriend, don't go out, no life etc.
2) I am afraid of commitment i.e having to devote time to friends, having friends phoning me, visiting me, interupting my routine.
3) I am afriad of being pushed into things that makes me uncomfortable for example going to clubs and so on. A female friend of mine mentioned going to a disco when i visited her and i started to panic..I'm glad she changed her mind.
4) I dislike having to think of things to talk about all the time, and having to feel i have to be fun to be with. I often think i have to say funny things to be accpeted.
5) I feel inferior to everyone especially outgoing extroverts/people who have lives.
6) I distrust most people.
7) People talking about sex makes me feel uncomfortable as i can't relate, and if i did it would be no one elses business.
8) I am against drugs and don't ever get drunk. I used to have a workmate who would drag me out sometimes and he used to do drugs which made me feel uncomfortable.
1) I am embarassed of people getting to know i have no job, no friends, never had a girlfriend, don't go out, no life etc.
2) I am afraid of commitment i.e having to devote time to friends, having friends phoning me, visiting me, interupting my routine.
3) I am afriad of being pushed into things that makes me uncomfortable for example going to clubs and so on. A female friend of mine mentioned going to a disco when i visited her and i started to panic..I'm glad she changed her mind.
4) I dislike having to think of things to talk about all the time, and having to feel i have to be fun to be with. I often think i have to say funny things to be accpeted.
5) I feel inferior to everyone especially outgoing extroverts/people who have lives.
6) I distrust most people.
7) People talking about sex makes me feel uncomfortable as i can't relate, and if i did it would be no one elses business.
8) I am against drugs and don't ever get drunk. I used to have a workmate who would drag me out sometimes and he used to do drugs which made me feel uncomfortable.
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