Scottish_Player
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How do you deal with rejection?
Rejection for me is one of the worst feelings in the world and thats why i avoid putting myself in situations where it can happen, but this also stops me from doing stuff and moving on for fear of it and ive come to realise recently that this is the next thing i need to work on.
Iam not just talking about rejection with realtionships, even simple stuff like sending someone a msg on MSN and getting no reply or the same with sending txts, and even asking someone if the want to do something at the weekend for fear of them saying "NO" even although they might be genuinly busy i still find it hard not to take too heart, feeling like theres something wrong with me.
How do other people deal with it and not let it bother them as much?
Rejection for me is one of the worst feelings in the world and thats why i avoid putting myself in situations where it can happen, but this also stops me from doing stuff and moving on for fear of it and ive come to realise recently that this is the next thing i need to work on.
Iam not just talking about rejection with realtionships, even simple stuff like sending someone a msg on MSN and getting no reply or the same with sending txts, and even asking someone if the want to do something at the weekend for fear of them saying "NO" even although they might be genuinly busy i still find it hard not to take too heart, feeling like theres something wrong with me.
How do other people deal with it and not let it bother them as much?