Do you think not having a strong or solid relationship with your parents can make people less confident and socially capable and other mental problems?
I lost my parents at an early age and feel that it sort of emotionally left a hole in me, like it left me without a solid basal foundation in this world like most people do. Parents are in a way very important I feel, because they can give children a strong footing in the world in many ways, wether it's financial or emotional support or just steering you in the right direction. At 27 now, I feel that a lot of problems of mine are related to not having had the umbrella of parents since I was 16. I spent a large part of my entire adolescence in avoidant behavior and depression, living on my own. Whereas many of people my age went home to their parents in weekends, I just stayed in my dorm with no where else to go.
I can imagine people who do have parents but have a bad relationship with them (like controlling, or mental or physical abuse in childhood) have something similar, they probably also feel like they're alone in a way.
I would like to hear from you how you feel about this.
I lost my parents at an early age and feel that it sort of emotionally left a hole in me, like it left me without a solid basal foundation in this world like most people do. Parents are in a way very important I feel, because they can give children a strong footing in the world in many ways, wether it's financial or emotional support or just steering you in the right direction. At 27 now, I feel that a lot of problems of mine are related to not having had the umbrella of parents since I was 16. I spent a large part of my entire adolescence in avoidant behavior and depression, living on my own. Whereas many of people my age went home to their parents in weekends, I just stayed in my dorm with no where else to go.
I can imagine people who do have parents but have a bad relationship with them (like controlling, or mental or physical abuse in childhood) have something similar, they probably also feel like they're alone in a way.
I would like to hear from you how you feel about this.