i was thinking about this yesterday, i used to be the same way as shyboy1 and blush etc when i talked to a guy i was attracted to but now i find myself generally more comfortable around guys whether i'm attracted to them or not. (though a big group of either sex still gives me the heeby geebies)
i was sitting on a crowed bus and the seats were filling up, there was an empty one next to me and i found myself getting anxious everytime a girl walked by. i guess i just feel like guys wouldn't pay attention to me whereas girls tend to pay more attention to you, what you're wearing, name brand clothes, etc.
a guy did end up sitting next to me and i was relieved knowing that i could sit in peace unnoticed... as far an i knew :roll: