Soulspectre
Active member
hey, I'm kind of new here and I've been posting alot lately about different topics that I think might help. Here's another one that I'm interested in hearing from the SA community about. Do you think that the answer to all of our problems is just self-esteem? I mean I hear it all the time, but I've never been too sure about it. It seems that if we just have the right amount of self-esteem in can drive us to power over this crippling phobia. We all are always worried about the way we are judged by others, and I'm starting to think that the only real reason it can possibly be is because we see ourselves as beneath others in one way or another(plenty in my case). I've been trying all sorts of different techniques to overcome this, I've been an SA sufferer now for about 6-7 years and the self-esteem thing seems to make alot of sense. I've always felt that I was different and terrifed to expose myself to people who might be critical of it. Which again brings us back to our feelings of being low and feeling like shit. The hardest thing is that I know who I "Really" am and I actually like myself, but it's hard to put that into an everyday social situation. I think I'm going to really try hard to raise my self-worth and value more and maybe that will help me along. Honestly, even writing this post is a little unnerving for me because I become so critical of myself with my writing but I think that all ties in to (Say it with me) my Self-esteem. But really please comment and tell me what your thoughts about this are.