lonewolfgirl
Active member
Hi,
So basically I'm not a social person. When I was younger I was very social and active, but after a few horrible experiences later in life when people were extremely mean and hostile towards me, I became antisocial. Not that I'm feeling low or unconfident about it. I'm fine with it. The question is: How should you deal with people who try to discriminate you or make you feel bad?
I recently moved back to a flat I used to stay. And this time, I've found out that the girl who was living here the first time I moved in did not like me (she is still living here). I can tell from her attitude that she doesn't like me. She even talked with the landlord guy so that he can talk to me about something that apparently bothers her about me. Why the heck she didn't talk to me directly about it? Must be an embarrassing issue then
Today the other girl left a used bottle of milk in the fridge with a piece of paper "For blablabla with love blablabla" (she left the bottle of milk for that girl"). I felt quite angry when I saw it. Not that I yearn to take up some cheap used milk. But it's the attitude. I admit that I didn't talk to them a lot, partly because I'm shy and I don't speak well their language. But what the heck? Why didn't the girl just send a whatsapp message to tell that she left the milk for that girl? I'm not trying to be liked but it gets annoying to get the attitude from other people. Should I just show them my true personality instead of trying to be quiet , nice etc.? (I was trying to be as polite as possible or so I thought).
Sorry for rambling.. I just need to let it out
So basically I'm not a social person. When I was younger I was very social and active, but after a few horrible experiences later in life when people were extremely mean and hostile towards me, I became antisocial. Not that I'm feeling low or unconfident about it. I'm fine with it. The question is: How should you deal with people who try to discriminate you or make you feel bad?
I recently moved back to a flat I used to stay. And this time, I've found out that the girl who was living here the first time I moved in did not like me (she is still living here). I can tell from her attitude that she doesn't like me. She even talked with the landlord guy so that he can talk to me about something that apparently bothers her about me. Why the heck she didn't talk to me directly about it? Must be an embarrassing issue then
Today the other girl left a used bottle of milk in the fridge with a piece of paper "For blablabla with love blablabla" (she left the bottle of milk for that girl"). I felt quite angry when I saw it. Not that I yearn to take up some cheap used milk. But it's the attitude. I admit that I didn't talk to them a lot, partly because I'm shy and I don't speak well their language. But what the heck? Why didn't the girl just send a whatsapp message to tell that she left the milk for that girl? I'm not trying to be liked but it gets annoying to get the attitude from other people. Should I just show them my true personality instead of trying to be quiet , nice etc.? (I was trying to be as polite as possible or so I thought).
Sorry for rambling.. I just need to let it out