Hi. I have a big problem with a shy man, hope someone can help me. I’m a private tutor, and I fell for my student. Well, to be exact he fell for me first, but that’s irrelevant I think. No crime - he is 37 and I’m ten years younger. He is a shy man but he has shown that he likes me and even tried to ask me out (I couldn’t go because of work etc. and explained that to him, not sure if he believed). That has put him off a little :[ So I decided to show him I also like him, and tried to ask him out, but that time it was him, who had to say no because of work. I thought ok, I’ll try again next time but… he cancelled next two lessons (reason: work). And here goes the strange: We are friends on facebook and after that he starts playing love songs. His friends criticized him, he didn’t react. I didn’t think at first it could be for me (I’m shy myself), but after a day a decided to like that list, and just a minute after my like, he writes back to his friends, that he doesn’t care they don’t like it. (since I’m shy I still have doubts if it’s relevant, I would appreciate your opinion). After that ho cancelled another 2 lessons. I had some family issues and didn’t even write back. Here comes the time for another lessons, and he doesn’t write. So I wrote to him. (all e-mail communication) He didn’t answer, so I wrote a text message. After a long time he writes me he cancels our (tomorrows!) lesson again, because he just got back from a trip and is tired. And he will contact me about the next lesson. From that e-mail I could tell he’s pissed, but didn’t understand why… I don’t know what to think.
Important – he said something once about being hurt before, but he didn’t want to talk about it, so I don’t know the details.
Sorry it is so long, but I hope someone will read it, I’m desperate to make it right. Please HELP!
Important – he said something once about being hurt before, but he didn’t want to talk about it, so I don’t know the details.
Sorry it is so long, but I hope someone will read it, I’m desperate to make it right. Please HELP!