Anonymous
Well-known member
Ok, I have a different sort of problem now. Like a lot of SP'ers, I used to totally avoid social situations because they would make me so scared and anxious. After I realized that avoidance was doing me harm, I sort of threw myself into social activities.
Now, I have the opposite problem -- I love having the exposure of being around people and doing the things that scare me, but it's when I am ALONE, now, that I start to have obsessive thoughts and anxiety. I can't stay home alone anymore, I have to always be around people and be in the situations that used to scare me (and still do to a large extent).
I think about my social fears and they disturb me only when I am alone, and I can only forget about them when I am actively engaged with other people.
Have any of you heard of this? I'm hoping that I arrive at a good equilibrium eventually, where I will have an even-keel mindset all the time.
Now, I have the opposite problem -- I love having the exposure of being around people and doing the things that scare me, but it's when I am ALONE, now, that I start to have obsessive thoughts and anxiety. I can't stay home alone anymore, I have to always be around people and be in the situations that used to scare me (and still do to a large extent).
I think about my social fears and they disturb me only when I am alone, and I can only forget about them when I am actively engaged with other people.
Have any of you heard of this? I'm hoping that I arrive at a good equilibrium eventually, where I will have an even-keel mindset all the time.