Talking about Clubbing on SPW

[Hoth]

When one of our number talks about having been clubbing, does anyone here find it offensive, depressing, unhelpful, etc.?

Honestly, it'd make me chuckle... because the vast majority of the non-social-phobic, very social people I know don't go clubbing and would likely find it uncomfortable. The idea of a social phobic out clubbing is funny.

On the other hand, everybody has their own set of goals and norms and you have as much right to post here as anyone else. I know some people push themselves to do extremely extroverted, extremely social things like that as part of trying to deal with their social anxiety. I doubt you'll get any useful clubbing advice at a forum like this, but you're free to try, it's not offensive or depressing -- merely a little amusing.

People like that guy who get offended by other people's lives are just expressing their personal misery in terms of anger at any available target, it really has nothing to do with you.

 

[Satine]

Fair enough; thank you everybody who's posted for their input!

More would always be appreciated, so if anyone else has more to say, don't be afraid to roll up!

 

[Ubersonic]

The whole club culture makes me sick.

 

[PinkFrog]

The whole club culture makes me sick.

Yeah. If I do go out, I like to go to a nice little Martini bar just to have a few drinks and a casual get-together.

I've been to a few clubs when I was younger, and didn't like it. Guys were trying to feel you all up and stuff. Not a good place for a respectable girl. Not saying girls who go clubbing are not respectable, but if you're not use to that kind of thing and it does bother you, I wouldn't recommend going. lol.

Besides, how can you hear people talking with such loud music anyway? lol.

 

[Psychedelicious]

That one time...

I don't know why someone should get offended?? I really don't care, like at all. I mean people can do whatever they want, and maybe it seems weird because it's not a common place for people like this. It really doesn't matter though. I think it's really ridiculous to get offended by it, so keep on clubbin' Rave Queen, or whatever you are, keep it on.



Once upon a
RAINBOW

 

[j_brown2]

What you mean with talking about clubbing?... I don't get it, I duno what would there be offensive... I usually don't care if a social phobic can go clubbing- good for him, Iam happy for him... reading on BEBO how "normal" people go clubing every weekend.. that does coz some great pain, it's nothing personal of course

I sooo wanna go out clubbing all night lol, last time I was was when I was 14... it's like I lived till the age of 14 and then I died... I had a good short life haha

 

[Nervous]

It doesn't bother me.

 

[SickJoke]

Yes, I find clubbing highly offensive. Hundreds of victims are clubbed to death every day in third world countries. For someone to come on these boards and brag about clubbing is just vulgar and disgusting!

 

[SickJoke]

Soon girls will be coming here talking about lesbian orgies as if it was normal?

I look forward to that day

 

[PinkFrog]

cause the females that go there act and turn into major Sluts. Look at Pink Frog shes turning into a poser

WTF? I actually said that I DO NOT like clubbing.

You're just a little forum troll crying for attention. Bleh.

 

[j_brown2]

And then a new religion will be born that will keep woman in check again like Christians do and so on

 

[Nervous]

WTF? I actually said that I DO NOT like clubbing.

You're just a little forum troll crying for attention. Bleh.

Just report his posts. A moderator will ban him when he signs on.

 

[SickJoke]

And then a new religion will be born that will keep woman in check again like Christians do and so on

I pray to god that doesn't happen Hopefully as a species we can move past those childish fairy tales very soon

 

[SickJoke]

Pink frog I put up with posers, show offs, loud, vulgar out of control ppl like urself. And its really getting ****ing annoying. This aint a place for some wild party animal. U use to have a bf, friends, social life partying hardcore drugs, drinking 8 glasses of beer each day . Im 21 and when I reach 22 I will still have no fcking gf, no friends ****ing no job, depression, sa, agoraphobia, **** so many ****ing problems u have no ****ing clue at all how easy ur life is.

Oh and btw Im ****ing ugly. U said u have english russian heritage. There u go all russian girls are ****ing hot, count urself lucky.

Damn! I googled "ugly Russian girl" just to prove you wrong, but I couldn't find any There must be some ugly Russian girls out there somewhere!

 

[j_brown2]

I pray to god that doesn't happen Hopefully as a species we can move past those childish fairy tales very soon

Yea it fascinates me what people do coz of their believes. A priest one day I guess had enough of women having so much sex with different partners, and possible came up with the idea... if you have sex before marriage it's a sin, you won't go to haven, I remember my mother was hiding me coz she got me before she got married, and her parents felt shame coz they were Christians, I was not allowed to go out till they got married. Crazy stuff

 

[SickJoke]

pink frog is a model shes coming here making fun of Social Anxiety sufferers. Dont u get it fake sufferers coming here to boost their already MASSIVE EGO!!!

Hmm well I see your point, but models could have social anxiety too. Can you quote her actually making fun of anyone?

 

[Nervous]

Hmm well I see your point, but models could have social anxiety too. Can you quote her actually making fun of anyone?

No, he's a troll that's been banned from this website several times.

 

[PinkFrog]

Pink frog I put up with posers, show offs, loud, vulgar out of control ppl like urself. And its really getting ****ing annoying. This aint a place for some wild party animal. U use to have a bf, friends, social life partying hardcore drugs, drinking 8 glasses of beer each day . Im 21 and when I reach 22 I will still have no fcking gf, no friends ****ing no job, depression, sa, agoraphobia, **** so many ****ing problems u have no ****ing clue at all how easy ur life is.

Oh and btw Im ****ing ugly. U said u have english russian heritage. There u go all russian girls are ****ing hot, count urself lucky.

Dude this is not a place for SICK JOKES. take this thread seriously females are turning into sluts. Just look at how many girls work in the porn industry in Russia and many eastern european nations

You hate women because they don't want you. Not a good reason to hate on everybody, though. I don't hate every guy that rejects me because not all guys are the same.

And, people have different variations of SA. I didn't use to have it so severe as I do now. So, do not go and pretend like you know my whole life history or how I feel from a few random posts. You are stranger. You are not my friend or family member. You do not know what I go through each and every day. Don't be so ignorant or arrogant.

Deal with your issues like everyone else. Ranting and ridiculing everyone will not make them go away.

 

[SickJoke]

I remember my mother was hiding me coz she got me before she got married, and her parents felt shame coz they were Christians, I was not allowed to go out till they got married. Crazy stuff

Hahaha wow is that true? How long did you have to hide away? You've lived a crazy life

No, he's a troll that's been banned from this website several times.

Maybe if he explains himself and we listen to him, we can get to the bottom of this! Well, I don't know, maybe that's wishful thinking

 

[j_brown2]

Hahaha wow is that true? How long did you have to hide away? You've lived a

About a year... then they got married coz of me, so I can go out and show me to the world lol... and now they are fighting still till today every weak, they are not meant to be together