Marin went abit far yes but you know the rules on personal attacks
so I deleted both the post that wound you up and then your reply, you cant say fairer than that, we all agreed on these rules
If you feel hasselled in any way, let me or grumbelina know and we can delete or edit the post and have a word with whoevers winding you up, you make personal attacks and it just leads to a flame war, thats something not tolerated here.
I know you are having a bad time Jack and I'm sorry to hear that, come to me if you ever feel upset or victimsied here and I'll do whatever I can to help