very confused

[lifesnotfair]

I am at the point in my life, where i don't know what i want to do.

I don't know if i want a women in my life, i don't know whether or not to be alone or to go out into the world, even though, everytime i try, i get shot down..

just so very confused..

 

[nedkelly]

I know how you feel mate, it's so hard to know what to do with one's self. I am at loggerheads with myself everyday, about which avenue to take in life. Unfortunately, not much happens from home, but it's still hard to get out there and face things i know.
I'm lucky enough to have found a partner, but i haven't worked for many years. It does get hard to get the motivation to keep going, when bad things seem to just keep on happpening, every time you make an effort.
I hope you are able to decide on what you would like to do in your life, and that your luck turns around. My wishes are with you mate, take care

 

[cody2468]

I feel the same way, I wish I had a partner and that I no longer had SA and that I didn't live in isolation anymore. I think before I can even consider finding myself a partner I need to sort myself out first. I want to work on my self esteem and self confidence so that I feel better about myself then I will work on something else then. Just take one step at a time and you will get there

 

[LilMissTragic]

Write a list of all the things you would like to do and try to do them. sounds simple but thats what I did. Even if it was just something simple.

 

[countrybumpkin]

I know how you feel Lifesnotfair, I'm trying to date a woman I met recently who can't understand the way I feel , she's outgoing and social. It's really tough and frustrating for both of us and I just keep wondering if I should just let her go and stop wasting her time .

 

[lifesnotfair]

at least you are dating, right now i am not sure what i need to do

 

[Anonymous]

I would say you need to learn how to be friends with a woman first ,then maybe you can move on to the next step . Small steps , it's a lot easier to deal with that way.

 

[countrybumpkin]

That last one was me Lifesnotfair , I forgot to log on first , I don't know much about computers , so... oops.