Rise Against
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The main reason why i am so nervous when i talk to unfamiliar people (mainly females) is because i am afraid of being judged and labeled. So yesterday i was thinking and i realized that i have absolutely nothing to lose. I started conversations with 6 girls on myspace. I got positive responses from all of them and even got a phone number (I didnt even have to ask for it, she just gave it to me and told me to text her lol ). I guess this is a step in the right direction to overcoming SAD.
My advice is that we have nothing to lose and everything to gain. People already view us as different, awkward and boring. So do we have anything to lose by talking to them? The worst thing that can happen is that they still think we are different, awkward and boring, but the best thing that can happen is friendship. In my opinion the benefits greatly out way the negatives. Most people aren't as mean or judgmental as we perceive them to be; they like to be talked to. I know this is easier said than done... but i did it and you can too . Hopefully this will motivate you to go beyond your comfort zone and make new friends.
My advice is that we have nothing to lose and everything to gain. People already view us as different, awkward and boring. So do we have anything to lose by talking to them? The worst thing that can happen is that they still think we are different, awkward and boring, but the best thing that can happen is friendship. In my opinion the benefits greatly out way the negatives. Most people aren't as mean or judgmental as we perceive them to be; they like to be talked to. I know this is easier said than done... but i did it and you can too . Hopefully this will motivate you to go beyond your comfort zone and make new friends.